Hi,
No, its not the pregnancy worry.
Thanks for your reply
Lookin Yummy
x
Hi,
No, its not the pregnancy worry.
Thanks for your reply
Lookin Yummy
x
Hello A -A ,
How wonderful to hear from somebody else who likes tickling in this way . Im glad to know I am not alone lol ! The little game you describe is the type of thing my ex would do and oh how I miss it ( The tickling, NOT the ex lol !) We had an occurence a few weeks ago where as I was giving him oral, he stroked the soul of my foot and although it was very brief, in those moments my technique of oral changed and I would have thought it was clear that I was enjoying it. But I don't think he acknowledged it in that way. He said he thought I was trying not to laugh. I didn't quite know what words to use to say "Well actually tickling gets me turned on"without sounding odd lol. As you say, it's got to be explained correctly, otherwise he will think I am mad. The tickle fight is good,but he isn't ticklish at all .
I did try and speak to a Dr about my Sperm fear, she said "It's totally natural and I would get used to it in time" she didn't how to do that though.
Thanks for replying !
xx
if your doctor is rude or dismissive you are well within your rights to see another. yes it is natural but they should help you get used to it if you are asking them for help. if you do whish to go back to a doctor then maybe asking for a different one will help?
Hiya,
Yeah I know I could see anotherone,but I generally think if one Dr has said one thing then surely the others will say the same. I know I'm branding them all the same and I probably shouldnt . But it did take me a while to get the confidence to go see her so for to say that kinda knocked me baclk a bit.
I seem to be getting more help on here
xx
Hi Nexas !
Thanks for saying "Hello! "
HEY ALL !!
I just had to come back on here and thank you all soooo much for all your advice !
I am pleased to say last night was a success and a good step forward with both issues ! I am happy to tell you what happend if you wish to know, but didn't want to babble on here incase you didn't, lol !
Anyway, thank you all again. Maybe our conversations will meet again on here .... ?
Best Wishes
Lookin - Yummy
x
aww thats good news to hear!
and dont rush off the forums, theres always a lot of threads for you to have a chat with us all with!
Dxx
ps was it the shower idea that helped or the bj ideas? (im nosey lol)
Be as nosey as you like, if you don't ask, you won't know, .
I suggested a shower together (Which isn't totally unusual for us) but when in there and all soaped up, I let my hands have a wonder over his manhood. Bless him,he could feel himself gettin excited and said to me "You may want to let me finish off from here" but I just carried on..... I am not sure what took his breath away more - the shock of me actually taking him all the way with my hand and allowing him to ejactualte on my hand or the intensity of the orgasm because it was the first time he had experianced one like that with me ?!?!?! I felt a split second of freaking out but then I remembered we were in the shower and it wouldonly be on me for a matter of seconds.
Afterwards; we laid top to toe on the bed and he stroked my foot (which I really love !) anyway I took the opportunity - given how relaxed he was - to mention how much I liked it and that it did actually get me a bit wet ( Sorry if thats too much info ! ) He was quiet for a second and I really thought "Oh no,he thinks I am strange !" but then he said "Well, I guess it makes sense from how you moan and laugh together" I thought that was as much as would happen on the issue for then but he said "Well, how about I give you a little suprise like you did for me ?" I agreed and the next thing I knew I was tied up and then he teased and pleased me through tickle play for quite a while ..... and by the end of it he said he had enjoyed seeing me "Suffer" but wanting more at the same time and it has to be said the intercourse was great !!
We both have a long way to go in learning specifically what each other wants and how to do it but I am positive last night will be the starting block of many a good time to come - exscuse the pun
xxxxxxx
Nice one Yummy!
Keep up the good work girl
SG69 x
wow you really did go for it last night! well done for being brave to say what you wanted and for taking a step in overcoming your fear of the little swimmers!
do you feel that you can carry on with making him cum and not worrying about it going on you?
it wel def get easyer with time!
Dxx
I'm so pleased for you Yummy!!!
Never worry about too much info....it often gets quite graphic on here! Keep up the good work lovely and keep letting us know your prgress coz I for one am a nosey bugger!
xxKPxx
Thanks SG69, I sure will xx
DIAMONDS - I did laugh with the " Little Swimmers " thing ! I will carry on, I'm not a quitter and hopefully over time will get easier for me as you say. I mentioned yesterday that I was warming to the idea of him coming over my feet then he can wash them ( Love my feet being caressed etc ) so that may well happen soon! xx
KITTY - I honestly think graphic converstation is good , I sometimes can get word vomit and go too far though, so I am always cautious that it is not too graphic for others. Rest assured I will keep you informed - after all , I have you guys to owe my new found screaming orgasm to !! xx
Oh btw can I just say : I am trying to get a pic here but it keeps saying my pics r too big
Unlike my boobs - God bless "Chicken Fillets" !! xxxx
YAY !!
I FOUND ONE !!
LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU THINK PEOPLE ....
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Mmmm looking scrumptious there! What beautiful petite breasts you have
xxKPxx
A-A - Lol !! Thank you xx
KP - Thank you too xx
Wow, well done lookin-yummy, sounds like you really got the ball rolling! Good luck with it all, it really is rewarding when you succeed! I agree with KP, keep us updated, we're all nosey people
Oh and whit whoo sexy boobs!
Ax
Lol, yeah,no worries AdnaW I will certainly keep you all updated !
Thank you very much for the compliment on my boobs - I'd like them bigger but at least they r firm and pert xx
Gorgeous pic hun! So glad you've had a really successful night after all that worrying! I know everyone has already given you some great advice, but why not keep some wet wipes near the bed then you know you always have those at a moments notice if you want/need them
x
Thank u M&S - ooooh imagine if u swapped that to S&M ??? I mean that in the nicest way
Someone said that yesterday so I will be investing in some soon.
Ur pic is lovely too xx