@PaulintheUK in reference to the no nippples rule, there are plenty of people who feel the same as you about this and there is quite a lengthy discussion of it in the Emily Clarkson campaigns to ‘free the nipple’. Sponsored by Lovehoney. Hypocritical? thread. Please, you and others who haven’t seen it, have a read, it goes into full details of why male nipples are banned on this forum. Essentially though, it’s a statement against gender bias. If the internet rules change and female nipples are no longer classed as pornagraphic by search engines, hopefully all nipples will be free to be seen on the forum if their owners so desire.
As to why I stick around… it’s an extremely friendly forum where I’m free to discuss anything I wish, sex or absolutely non sex related, with non judgemental people. Ive been around long enough that I feel I know some of the regulars pretty well and a chat is always a little boost if you’re feeling down. Any topics I’m not into I don’t have to participte in and even on slightly worrying queries, I think the advice offered by forum members is generally very sensible and helpful. The rules against inappropriate posts and no flirting make it feel a much safer forum to participate in to me, as people here only for sexual thrills tend not to stick around. It won’t be for everyone and that’s fine but it definitely works for me.