For those of you into Spanking or Impact Play, what was your most memorable play session(s)? The one that made you crave for a repeat.
#1 - my ex was going back to Ireland and before he left, he gave me a cathartic spanking while we had my parents’ house to ourselves. Even when I asked him to stop, he didn’t, and I remember it unlocking something deeper inside me – something that liked that he’d pushed me past my limit. He also spanked me in complete silence, allowing me to fully absorb the moment.
#2 - many a session with my husband at clubs, he roleplayed this kind of sexy captor, in possession of a belligerent captive. He didn’t care for any sass or attitude I gave him, he’d flog or spank it out of me without taking it to heart. I’d growl, and he’d remind me of my manners. I couldn’t “win”, and he knew I didn’t really want to – I didn’t just want to be dominated; I wanted to be completely owned.
@Tenshadesandme Even when I asked him to stop, he didn’t, and I remember it unlocking something deeper inside me – something that liked that he’d pushed me past my limit.
This is so powerful!
That moment cements everything!
For me there were three distinct scenes, maybe scene isn’t accurate but times that hit home for me:
1: I was 19 in college and happened to live in a complex where an older friend I knew from High School and his wife lived. He was 6 years older than me and his wife 8. They had taken me under their wings to keep my head on straight. Well more her than him. She had warned me repeatedly about the times she saw me around the complex when she knew I had classes that she would make sure I took things seriously. Long story short she did exactly that one day dragging me from the pool area up to her apartment and gave me a discipline spanking that to this day stays with me. I don’t know why I went along at that time and it was made worse that my friiend walked in right in the middle of it. From that day on the entire time I was in college she became my defacto disciplinarian. It was that experience that made me see something inside that I would need that in my life. And I’ve always sought out strong Women.
2: The first Theraputic or Cathartic spanking I ever gave to a young Lady I would become a mentor, disciplinarian to. I had given similar spankings of the type before but this was the first time it felt totally connected and the first hint that I had a Daddy inside me that wanted to protect and nurture this young Lady. And that set me on the path of identifying as a Daddy.
3: I had the first total Switch scene I had ever had with a Woman I had spent 3 years trying to connect with. I knew she was an extreaml;y hard player form both sides of the slash and she knew I was looking for someone who could walk into my most primal self. We finally arranged a date to play at one of my parties. The idea was even though we were going to Switch, the person starting out as the bottom wasn’t waiting their turn they physically had to take control to take the lead. It also had to start that way so it wasn’t your turn, my turn. We though at first it might be difficult but fate interviened.
We agreed on a particular time as we both has a nother scene scheduled. Well as host of the party and the fact I was playing with a rather delicious young Lady I ended up being late. My scne was interrrupted by her submissive looking and say she was looking for me and she wasn’t happy and I should come now.
When I walked back to the area we had decdied to play she didn’t waste anytime she simply grabbed me turned me face down over a table and began spanking me. This wnt on for a bit until she had me on my back on the table caining the insides of my tighs when I just reached out midstroke and grabbed the cane and suddenly the tide has shifted. That was an experience I have yet to duplicate but not for the lack of tyring!
LMFAO! This may have been a too on point post: Just received this group text from my 3 main partners and a couple of play partners; We’re all going to finally be in town at the same time. Going away party. Guess who is getting all the spankings. Not a question. YOU! And guess who’s lap you’re going to be over most! NO YOU DON’T GET A VOTE!
I may have a new Memorable scene in my future!
I love this! I met my husband in martial arts and I just remember he was a whilte belt, I was almost an orange belt. I had an attitude but so did he and I just remember thinking “fine, someone’s gotta teach you a lesson.”
One of us learned a lesson that day and it wasn’t him!