shellyboo wrote:
rag doll wrote:
i dont know if others would agree with it being okay (i think its okay if its a big compony as opposed to an individual or smaller organisation) but oits amazing what you can download for free if you know where to look ;)
Tell meeeee! Haha :)
You'll have to talk to my Partner about that. i manage to download viruses every time i tray and download a normal film :)
I only watch girl on girl and i'm a (fairly) straight female in a long term relationship with a man.
For me, its because so much porn with men in it comes across as being all about the power rather than the sex which just doesn't turn me on.
I have one female friend who I can talk to about porn/sex toys etc but the rest would look at me like I'm off my head.
Just the fact that women love watching porn is enough of a turn on for me! And not just the romancey stuff either, full on dominating kinky porn, just !
Made my day. 
Yeah, as a guy who does watch porn, I don't see the need - was going to say, embarrassment but this is LH - of buying porn when there is so much decent quality, free porn to stream. I obviously can't post websites and such, but if you search towards streaming tube-type sites you'll find more than you can think possible...
I'm really disappointed there isn't really porn targeted at a female audience. I've tried watching the gay men stuff but I'll be honest it doesn't do much seeing men wanking canoes or fiddling with their willy's with tennis rackets (these were some of the better ones I've seen), for me personally. I usually watch women with toys because I like copying what they do, trying to orgasm at the same time :)
Try http://www.tabordvd.co.uk I am sure you will find some porn there for your satisfaction. Its a trusted site and you will get what you ordered in plain pakaging. ive used the site for about 10 years with no problem.
ghost wrote:
Try http://www.tabordvd.co.uk I am sure you will find some porn there for your satisfaction. Its a trusted site and you will get what you ordered in plain pakaging. ive used the site for about 10 years with no problem.
Is that specially for women? I think there needs to be a porn site or dvd's specifically made for women. With all due respect ghost, you are a male .. and your taste will probably be different to ours. I think the site shows dvds of lesbian porn mainly.
Dee it has loads of different categories. I must admit i would like to find a site with more story themed porn. If I find it i will let you know.
i love porn! never orgasm by myself without watching it. i love domination, especially lesdom or even better lesbian bondage gangbangs muahaha. public disgrace and bound gangbangs are perfecto! just finding a full length one thats the problem : (
hate cheesy girly porn with music and stupid noises, i like aggressive! and crazy ! : p
J-Greens wrote:
Just the fact that women love watching porn is enough of a turn on for me! And not just the romancey stuff either, full on dominating kinky porn, just !
Made my day. 
Yeah, as a guy who does watch porn, I don't see the need - was going to say, embarrassment but this is LH - of buying porn when there is so much decent quality, free porn to stream. I obviously can't post websites and such, but if you search towards streaming tube-type sites you'll find more than you can think possible...
It depends what you're looking for really, J-Greens. It's actually really difficult for me to find porn I enjoy, since I'm kinky and regular porn just doesn't do it for me. Similarly, any porn where it's even vaguely forced, or where the woman is clearly faking -- no thank you. Long fingernails -- no thank you. Fake boobs -- no thank you!
I'm starting to find that kink.com stuff is all I can stomach because they have an interview with the stars before and after the scene, you can see and hear them clearly consent, you can hear their excitement about doing the scene, and their performers are really excellent! Unfortuantely, it's really difficult to find it online for free :(
Dee_licious333 wrote:
ghost wrote:
Try http://www.tabordvd.co.uk I am sure you will find some porn there for your satisfaction. Its a trusted site and you will get what you ordered in plain pakaging. ive used the site for about 10 years with no problem.
Is that specially for women? I think there needs to be a porn site or dvd's specifically made for women. With all due respect ghost, you are a male .. and your taste will probably be different to ours. I think the site shows dvds of lesbian porn mainly.
Dee, try HotMovies4Her, the CrashPad series, or basically anything that Violet Blue mentions in this post:
http://www.tinynibbles.com/smartporn
shellyboo wrote:
Similarly, any porn where it's even vaguely forced, or where the woman is clearly faking -- no thank you. Long fingernails -- no thank you. Fake boobs -- no thank you!
I'm starting to find that kink.com stuff is all I can stomach because they have an interview with the stars before and after the scene, you can see and hear them clearly consent, you can hear their excitement about doing the scene, and their performers are really excellent!
Sorry to jump in on this female-orientated thread, but this sums up very well my own reaction to porn (despite not being a woman!).
Regardless of the assets of the performers, images alone don't do much for me, especially if they're obviously contrived. I particularly hate any thought that the players are being exploited or made to do things that they don't want to (which, I guess, may be sadly common).
I find that the before/after interviews are a great way to dispell my concerns, though. They also provide me with an emotional connection to the underlying personality of the performer which I find to be a big turn-on. I can then watch the scene with the clear understanding that it's the consensual playing-out of a fantasy, and allow myself to be drawn into it and enjoy it without feeling too guilty.
I'm relieved to hear that I'm not the only one who responds this way.
Cuddly Hubby wrote:
I find that the before/after interviews are a great way to dispell my concerns, though. They also provide me with an emotional connection to the underlying personality of the performer which I find to be a big turn-on. I can then watch the scene with the clear understanding that it's the consensual playing-out of a fantasy, and allow myself to be drawn into it
Oh absolutely! I thought I was fairly odd in that I sometimes enjoy the interviews and dialogue more than the action on screen...
Well for the first time in my life I managed to make myself cum TWICE in the bath last night with.... wait for it..... Only my hands! I was amazed at myself not needing to use a toy. AND I wasn't laid on my stomach... which is normally th only way I can climax
Also I didn't need porn *bonus* :)
Good for you Lady Gasm. See, it can be done and its by far the easiest way for me to cum and the quickest.
Were you making an effort to gradually wean yourself off toys then?
You can try different positions now - Well done!!
Dee_licious333 wrote:
Good for you Lady Gasm. See, it can be done and its by far the easiest way for me to cum and the quickest.
Were you making an effort to gradually wean yourself off toys then?
You can try different positions now - Well done!!
Thanks Dee, I have tried so many times but always given in in the end. I wasn't planning on doing anything when I got in the bath, I was just bored and didn't have any toys anyway so I was just messing about really... 2 minutes later... Fireworks! >:) And yes, that's next on my agenda! Finally....... :D
xx
I agree with those who like porn where all participants seem to have a good time and consent to everything they do. I have seen a few clips where the women are somewhat exhibitionistic and want to be seen from all angles. I love when they are looking into the camera, making sure it is positioned right, with this "watch me!" in their eyes.
Female friendly does not mean overly romantic, kitchy music and a huge fake smile all over her face all of the time.
We watch porn together, so not taboo for us. We are both pretty open minded to what we watch so view lots of different types that can be made up of MM, FF, MF, MMF, MFF etc.
Prefer something with a bit of a build up as in some undressing, play hands in the underwear without genitals on view.
However, I would love for her to watch more porn and play on her own whether I'm at home with her or not.....
I agree totally with this, if I mentioned I watched porn with any female friends they would assume I wasnt happy with the boy. Yet me and my male friends generally swap sites and videos, due to us all being into girl on girl and threesomes at the moment. Im quite honest with the boy who determined to now have a threesome, and after watching some of these videos I might just have to give it a try!!!
We watch porn together, although it seems judging by the random nature of where various dvd's are turning up in drawers/cupboards in the lounge/bedroom that JJ isn't averse to a viewing alone daytime. Funnily enough we were talking the other day about buying some fresh dvd's.....and i was saying that it's hard to do so without ending up with a load of dross.
Thing with porn is that there's sub genres/styles within genres and trying to work out what will be worth a look is a royal pain. In the past when the $ was weak i just used to visit 1-2 of the huge US sites and armed with umpteen titles buy a batch at a time. Of which some were hits and some misses. A bit like reading a 'normal' book its easy to get sucked into a production house/series only to find that subsequent offerings aren;t so good.
So....i've been tasked with finding some fresh material whichg would/could include: bondage, strong ravishment ( rougher scenes ) including forced/toy driven domination. to quote '' find me something a bit rougher, where soft eroticism becomes more bondage(y) ''........nice easy task then !
Still the rsearch is ok 
( there's about 20 dvd's waiting to be passed on to whoever wants them as they've run their course with us, can't promise they'll be exactly what anyone wants but in the spirit of recycling - ask and i'll pop them in the post - in a plain wrapper! )