So once a year then wife and I get a week’s holiday and this is when she is more relaxed and interested in sex.
She knows I’d like to try some fun in the anal area and occasionally she will let me touch but not go much further so I respect this.
By the way I always ask.
So on the off chance that we do have so fun in that area I’d like to be a little prepared with lube but not want to take anal lube as if there was a bag search it wouldn’t go down well at all.
Are there any other lubes I could possibly have to hand or purchase aboard which would aid the fun times.
Thanks
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When we go away we just fill one of the airline compatible 100 ml bottles with Fist It anal lube.
It’s clear and so long as you don’t label the bottle no one will know.
Argh but the question will be asked is what’s in this bottle and then the game is up.
You don’t have to use an anal lube. Anal lube is generally a bit thicker but personally I don’t like the texture and I use a normal water based or oil base lube. If you want a thicker lube that is close to an anal lube have a look at the sliquid lubes - the natural gel one is thick and I think they do a lube that is recommended for anal but isn’t called an anal lube - probably so that it’s a bit more discreet! I’ll have a look later and see if I can find it on LH.
I doubt that you would be the first person they have found who carries lube.
Our toy bag was searched at Charles De Gaulle airport and it contained (among other things) a strap-on harness and dildo, 2 vibrators and the bottle of lube. The lady doing the search didn’t bat an eyelid.
This is the one I was thinking of - it says it’s suitable for vaginal and anal play. If asked, you can say that it’s used to relieve vaginal dryness or as an intimate moisturizer. But unless you’re going to a really conservative country, I can’t see why lube would be a problem
I cant figure out if your nervous about the airport checking your bag or your wife checking and seeing that your pre preparing for anal.
We use liquid silk and its amazing for anal and vaginal in our opinion. If the airport see it in a clear bottle then you can say mousturiser, although ive never been asked whats in my bottles.
If its your wife your worried about, maybe have a conversation with her. Tell her that your going to take some lube that is good for vaginal and anal… just incase she feeling like she wants to try, making sure you tell her theres absolutely no pressure to do anything shes not comfortable with. This may work better than hiding it from her
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It’s both in a way.
I understand her and respect her.
Sometimes the right word at the right time works wonders but one right word at the wrong time.
It’s difficult to explain but I understand what you’re saying.
Thanks for the advice
Would baby oil be a bad thing at least we could use it for massage.
Just take some ordinary lube in a clear bottle or remove the label, stick it into your checked lugage and there you go. Ypu can always say its organic shampoo … unless your bald 
or shower gel
@I_Wish - I would not be concerned about taking a small bottle of lube - I appreciate it may be a bit embarrassing if your bag gets searched but without live sex can be difficult
As said before you could dispense into a small clear bottle
Happy holidays
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Baby oil would be fine for massage but I’m not sure about using it for sex. Oils can change the pH and bacterial balance of the vaginal and vulva so I would avoid using it in that area or your wife could end up with thrush. I’m not sure about anal use though, personally I would avoid it because I’m very sensitive and getting baby oil in that area wouldn’t be good for me but I’m sure opinions will vary on that one, some people use oils with no problems. The other thing to bear in mind is that oils are not suitable for use with condoms, I’m not sure if that would be an issue for you or not.
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Unless you are going to a country that doesn’t subscribe to that level of sexual liberation, you could always choose to support the local economy too if you feel the decanting of liquids to be not possible.
I use anal lube any time I use lube and its very rarely for anal. I prefer the consistency of it and its less messy. It has the added bonus of being available should anal be on the cards. Maybe awitch the type of lube you use.
Baby oil is not recommended for sex.
Coconut oil is actually my favorite lube for anal and IS bodysafe. It’s great for massage/moisturizer and so might be less conspicuous if you were pulled for random inspection.
But honestly, any lube is fine for anal, some just is formulated to apply better or be longer lasting. And if it is inspected, unless you’re going somewhere very restrictive it’s not going to be a problem.
My wife has had her carry-on pulled when traveling solo for work because of the silicone dildo packed in her shoe (inside another bag - female TSA agent inspected the closed bag, gave her a flat look, and put it back clear). Since then we’ve added a Womanizer Duo 2 to the toybox so that should it happen again at least she’s having to explain a proper fake penis. And it did happen again - and again, packed inside the womanizer bag inside her shoe it didn’t get opened and waved around, they just want to verify what it is.
Anyway - when it comes to vacations away, I’ve never hesitated to pack toys in the checked bag. And we’ve gotten to our destination and unpacked to find the tag inside that says our bag was inspected, but nothing missing or amiss. It’s all fine.
Lovehoney water based lube tends to be great or liquid silk which is my go to 
I wouldnt worry about what you take. We normally take lube and a plug whenever we travel, they’ve seen it all before.
That’s our favourite lube. Very nice.
I’ve always used this lube and cleaner bundle , it’s not specifically for anal but it’s always worked wonders for me!
Depending on the country of destination, you could always pay a visit to either a pharmacy, or large supermarket if you’d prefer not to pack lube.
We find that, apart from most of the Middle East (and other countries with strict religious laws), you will find pharmacies and large supermarkets stock well known proprietary branded condoms and lubes.
You could also consider paying a visit to a sex shop, if you are near a large enough town, or city. Much better, in our opinion, than shopping for holiday gifts, or the usual holiday momento.