Id say doggie :)
Have to agree, doggy or spooning but at right angles - that feels amazing.
August_A&R wrote:
Now I have some questions I'm wondering if you might be able to answer.
1. Whilst I think we will work upto beads or a plug I think we will be using fingers for the short term, however upon inserting my finger I found I was in a awkward position and whilst I was able to stimulate her clit with my free hand it wasn't easy. Can anyone suggest some positions we can try? I think knowing some upfront might mean we don't loose the moment having to work out logistics together.
2. Whilst I believe a woman can stimulate the males prostate with a finger I'm unsure what I should have been doing with my finger in her bottom. To be honest I kinda kept it still with the thought I didn't want to risk causing friction or similar by thrusting it in and out and thought it might be best to act as a butt plug, but again I'd appreciate some advice if there is something I could be doing to enhance her sensations even more.
thanks in advance
Hi,
I'd suggest her on her front and your thumb in her bum, leaving your fingers free to explore her clit or to finger her.
In terms of what you should be doing, ask her what feels good for her! I think it's lovely you were trying not to hurt her with friction, but as long as you're well lubed, that shouldn't be a problem. Personally, because we don't have the prostate to stimulate, what I love about it is actually the in and out, as the ring of the anus is stimulated.
Hope that helps!
Terri JJ wrote:
Hi and welcome to the forums x
I'd suggest you try playing solo just using your fingers and plenty of lube for the first few times. This way you'll get used to the sensation of having something inserted and removed. It's important to teach your body to relax. When you feel ready to use your dildo, again apply plenty of lube both to it and yourself. Get yourself comfy, lying on your side with your knees pulled up towards your chest is a good position. Breath slowly and each time you exhale push the dildo in a little further...this is when your muscles will be at their most relaxed. And lastly.....its not a race ! Dont rush things...take your time and enjoy it xx
+1 excellent advice Terry
Doggy when receiving- like it as deep as possible, and makes it so much more easier for the giver to give you a pounding!
I am happy to be pegged in any position but my favourite is "missionary" it's so intimate and my OH looks fantastic when coming at me with the Doc Johnson Platinum Corset Harness and Maia Marcia Porpora Wavy Dildo. I can wrap my legs around, grab her ass and pull her in. Fantastic.
Definitley slow spooning at first, then when its comfortable deep roll over so my body is completely on top of theirs my back to his body, so he can reach round and play with my clit at the same time.Mind blowing
doogy with face in pillow and bum in air so that she or he had fuck me deeply
Chadd go slowly with lots of lube and relax, take your time, it can be amazing but the first few times go slow, I suggest trying in the shower or bath with a finger and some lube and work your way up to a toy, make sure the toy is suitable for anal (flared based etc)
Set aside an hour to play and don't cum too soon let build into a mind blowing orgasm ;)
the bfb likes spoons, and whatever its called when she's on her side and I'm upright, but we can lift her leg slightly raised...
I liked the missionary one, with me 'underneath' 
On my back with my hips propped up with pillows (one day I'll invest in the Liberator Wedge) for me.
When using toys on my husband spooning or 69ish, we are just new at it so massive thanks to Squid who helped me with the suggestions he gave me! Passing on his wisdom really!
Awww cheers Rosy, glad you and Mr are enjoying the bum fun! 😃 x
When I'm on the receiving end, it's doggy fashion but tied down on an armchair type frame. Me kneeling on the arms and neck over the back secured all ways with velcro, unable to move and ready to take as deep and as fast as he wants to give with spanking. With my wife I like to have her doggy so you can see yourself going in and she can have dp which she loves. When she has anal with some of her men friends who are very well endowed she prefers spooning as she can control the depth she gets.
The liberator wedge looks a good investment
I still haven't got there yet even though I'm now using a glass plug (the flower one). Tried all of your suggested positions, breathing techniques etc. We did it a few years ago just the once (both of us very drunk). I will get there I'm determined
Face to face with the recievers hips raised up on a wedge.
Face to face is more intimate and you can also instantly see if the reciever is in any discomfort too.