So me and by boyfriend have talked about Anal, i've only had his fingers in me twice, both which were suprises as i had no idea he was going to do it. It felt so weird but i kind of enjoyed it. The problem is, i'm scared that something may come out >_< has this ever happened to anyone?
And do you have any suggestions to what i can use i.e the right types of lubes and on average how long it took to take your partner?
Thanks a bunch
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To prevent anything coming out so to speak it is best to use a douche or enema before to prevent this happening. http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex/better-anal-sex/anal-douches/?w=douche
Many people use lube specifically for anal play, but i just use a normal lubricant and have found it no different.
The best way i found to working up to anl play was by using these butt plugs
Just rember to elax and use lots of lube http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=10616
Good Luck! :)
Hi FreakyStormy,
We would highly recommend this lubricant for anal play it certainly does wonder's. ![](upload://rA41UoqYzU9yrgGiJUyzuRc98GV.gif)
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Thanks guys, i will look into these
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Douches are a must have! Without them you can never be truly clean. Personally I use a water-based lube specifically for anal, it's a little thicker than normal water based but not too much different. Here's some examples of what I use!
Douche: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29754
Lube: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13084
Small plug: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21704
Bigger plug: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=8566
Just make sure to use lots of lube, be safe and have fun! If something doesn't feel comfortable it probably isn't good for your body.