Does any one else revel in this? I know it's the actual act that we all long for and when we are indulging its amazing and it goes by to fast. We have stumbled on to something very special in the build up. The joining of minds in what we now consider foreplay. Even though we are very happily married , with a hectic life's it's become very difficult to plan in a love session in the week. Coupled with me being an early bird and my wife being a night owl.
So we have got into a bit of a nice rut. I need to be in bed by 10 really for work. So for us Friday night is a wonderful night. We have developed this little edging scenario and I am finding it ever increasingly horny. We have talked it over, having got a much higher sex drive than my Wife she told me and helped me understand that little and often wasn't anywhere as good less often but fantastic.
Sunday evening we will say only 5 days till next week end. Through the early part of the week we may start to talk about last weekend what we enjoyed and what we would like try next. By Wednesday we are starting to sext each other at work. By Friday I am Horny as hell. My wife knows this and verbal a written edging is awesome. The throbbing inside which I have come to assume is my prostate because if I do a pc clench it feels even better. If I do this to many times I actually start to leak pre come. When I talk to my wife or txt her she says she is the same on a Friday she has to wear a panty liner for fear of damp spots coming through.
All of this I find just exquisite. The knowledge that it is being done deliberately for each other's excitement. Because we have spent all this time building the sexual tension when we are finally together we carry it on and try to prolong our lovemaking. It might be an age thing we don't want the wham bam of a quickly any more. The level of arousal is such that the smallest movement feels wonderful. I do find that with all this anticipation the final orgasm is almost double a normal one in volume and number of contractions. It also seems more of an all over body thing a bit like how women describe their big ones. It's possible to sit in the pre orgasmic plateau for a lot longer too. I think from my readings we are close to some sort of tantric experience.
Any way as usual GG rambles on. How much do you enjoy the anticipation and do you do any think to heighten it?