I can get the general sense of it being a controversy & bad for both, but misogynistic, I’m not really seeing it… could you illuminate that?
My personal reasoning was to see how far I could push it, and to see what happens when I don’t keep up with my self care… spoiler: I turn into an airhead that cannot focus on anything (that’s when I know I need to going by the minimum schedule), and I become somewhat testy (as I’ve just found out… though thats a beautiful day compared to me going without my coffee).
I’m only really paraphrasing what I found online, but I knew that there’s some controversy around it, and beyond the physical implications of not ejaculating for a month.
Basically it’s not the act itself but who it’s popular with - right-wing groups and incel communities, some of whom hold unsavoury views towards women and sexual freedom on the whole. So it’s not really the act itself so much as the mindset of some of the people who support and promote it. Avoid both of those, and you’re golden
I have stopped wanking for a while now. i only have penis stimulation during sex. the sex is better and i have better penis orgasms. wanking was affecting my sex life because i was just used to my tight grip of my hand so vaginal sex was not allowing me to climax. i have not noticed any issue what so ever with grumpyness from nutting during sex only. Which is a weekly thing for me.
my reason for doing it was because i do solo prostate play about twice a week and to do prostate orgasms, i find prostate orgams much deeper and longer and you get the high for a long time after - a bit like female orgasms. its far superior and i find wanking the dick pointless. its like this: as soon as you cum from wanking you get a drop of endorphins and you feel like you could have used the time better. with prostate orgasms its takea a lot longer to get there but you can have multuple orgasms and go on for as long as you want, and you walk on cloud 9 for ages.
plugs from a few hours before play because OH and kids in the house, so i like to wear the prostate plugs and just do my ususal daily stuff around the house. Usually know ahead of time they’re leaving the house. So I Get the plug in to warm up.
I use some stroker toys from china and then when I see some waves I switch to the njoy wand.
Longest I go is probably 5 or 6 days. I like every day really or every other day. A month is a long time without cuming! Orgasms are good for the kind and busy and work productivity
