OK, difficult post this so sorry if I ramble. Had a little bit of a shock a few weeks back concerning the little guy if you know what I mean. Now, about a month ago I posted on the rant thread that I'd be out of action for a few weeks due to an infection. Doc seen, cream applied, infection gone, all good. However, not sure if the two are linked but almost as soon as I was clear, I began having a few issues achieving readiness, predominantly on my own.
Things had been busy thru September so initially put it down to that, my youngest started school so we were both back n forth various times of the day for the first 3 weeks, my wife is now doing extra work while the kids are at school to catch up the time missed. I work full time and, as a result am helping more - I do pull my weight at home & we have a good "schedule" in place of who does what when & obviously that has been changing this last month.
Yesterday I had a day off. Empty house on my own, first time since July, did some washing, some shopping, sorted the car out, wrote some reviews, checked in here and chilled (not necessarily in that order).
"Me" time didn't go 100% according to plan even with digital assistance & later in the evening a session with Mrs LUC resulted in my first initial failure to rise to the occasion a little bit of coaxing into action soon bought him back around but if anything felt a little scary.
I've just turned 40. Life has been hard these last 6 weeks or so with family work etc but as a couple we are closer I think than we ever have been.
The weekend just gone we were at a friends wedding, party, food, drinks (many) and dancing and even after a belly full of food & drink on the Saturday performance in the early hours of Sunday morning wasn't affected.
Sorry for the long rambling post just looking for (hoping) some idea of what may be happening, why and or if anyone has had similar and issues and what they did or didn't do to cure it.
Thanks again in advance.