I guessing this can be a huge turn on for women and a dominance thing too? Im just thinking I would love this every so often as I have done this before when I can be bothered, but after the first orgasm 99.9% I just cant be bothered for a 2nd time. But times when I have orgasmed 3times about 10-15mins apart, the empty aching feeling from balls is just an awesome feeling… I just wish I could do it to myself more often, but as I say 99.9% of the time I just can’t be arsed after the first orgasm…
I REALLY need to get myself a women so she can do this to me a few times a month maybe… This being a virgin(at 45) is all good and well as it proves to women Im not like other men etc. But it really is starting to piss me off now as I have so much I want todo with women sexually and all the pleasure will be for them. As I can tell I wont be much of a receiver because when horny I just want to give give give.
You cannot really call it multiple orgasms for men really can you as men need to rest a few mins in-between for the sensitivity to ease?
It comes down to a physical thing, and it is not about sensitivity. It depends on the refractory period. The web says this about it:
“The refractory period is the time after an orgasm during which a person is not sexually responsive and cannot achieve another orgasm. This period varies between individuals, typically lasting from a few minutes to several days, and is more pronounced in males than in females, who may experience shorter or absent refractory periods.”
My wife can make me cum multiple times a few minutes apart often while pegging. If I have a hands free orgasm she can get me to cum again by giving me a hand job as she continues to peg me. For us is she can’t stop pegging me after my first orgasm. Usually two is all I can do this close together.
I just love the thought of someone(preferably someone that Im crazy about and trust) doing that to me, as I cant really do it do myself properly and have no idea what it feels like. Plus the no dirty thoughts and not needing to cum again for a few days MAYBE would be quite heavenly too, it would be being like a woman for a few days
Al’s OH writing this. I’ve never seen him cum twice as in during one time IN me. I’ve gotten him to cum twice in a row after he gets hard again - does that count? Or I’ve sucked him off then after a while we fuck and he cums. FUN!!
Yes that counts and thats what Im talking about, becauses It cant be that hard to make a man hard and cum again from wanking/sucking and talking dirty+praising him surly, thats after the sensitivity has worn off?.. because its about getting into his mind and making it run wild.
Like with me IF I had someone that I was crazy about, I could make myself horny over and over again in no time, without any input from her, just by praising, feeling every inch of her body to make her feel soo beautiful and sexy, as just the thought of me making her pussy throb, drip and wanting/needing to cum without even touching it, that will soooo keep getting me hard again and again… Its all in the mind and yeah men are normally more visual, but Im a bit like a woman, I love my mind to run wild as thats the key to make me horny. And probably the key for a lot of men but they just dont know it and haven’t taken the sex thing from that side or point of view before
Plus if i had just cum and if she were to praise etc me whilst wanking etc me I’ll get hard again for her in no time.. i dont get people who has sex in silence as that would be rubbish sex as you have to get each other’s mind racing and feeling it too…
Like a few years ago I watched a sex counseling series and it was laughable as mainly the men didn’t have a clue how to satisfy or make their partner feel good before the actual fucking so she couldn’t orgasm. I could be sex counsellor as its just mainly common sense, communication and making each other feel good in the mind, mainly the woman as she won’t be orgasming for anyone if she doesnt feel good.. Its just amazing, I haven’t ever had sex but I know more about sex and making women feel good than men thats been having sex for years, its just mind boggling
And there you go, just because I haven’t had sex, I know nothing about it, like my online mate think aswel(but he thinks that women dont need to orgasm and they never fake them either, so it just tells you how little he knows on the subject and he’s in his 50s ffs)…No one gets, you CAN actually know more finding out about stuff first then actually just go out and doing it, because you never actually find out about it, you guess your way though it and pick up bad habits along the way…
Like Im torturing myself big time(as I will probably will never have sex, but hey shit happens as they say) by find out everything I can about sex and more importantly what stuff women want,what feels good etc. As women are always banging on about men are rubbish, there left feeling unsatisfied, it never lasts long enough and the list goes on and on…
What it boils down to, men are selfish actually knows very little about sex because they dont need to know as men orgasm stupidly easy anyway, so why should they find out any more than they have to? And women just wants to please the man and goes along with it, never experiencing how sex should really feel like and thats why women say “chocolale is better than sex etc” thats very sad if some women actually thinks that.. But women have said to me “that sex isnt all that great and Im not missing out on much” and thats so so sad, because sex is fucking awesome if its with the right person
Is that you who’s edited this post 6 times or the mods? Just warning that when you start painting in broad generalities, especially negative ones, you’re probably close to running afoul of the forum guidelines.
But glad to have you hear for the sharing of experiences and education all the same!
For my part I agree it’s a grand fantasy to have the full day in bed with forced orgasms and going round after round until we collapse in a dehydrated, sweaty heap. And when we get a child-free weekend or overnight away we certainly do cram it in! But in the real life I’ll confess I’m not at all concerned with what women want in the bedroom. I’m concerned entirely with what one woman wants in our bedroom. And her preference, for example on a quiet Sunday afternoon together, is one bang on orgasm together, especially with some good edging involved, that leaves us in a not-quite-dehydrated, sweaty heap. Then we shower off, dress up, go out for some tacos and margs, or maybe curry is on the menu, before picking up the kids from her parents’ where they’ve been sugared up and spoiled all day long, then home for the family snuggles and off to bed. If I really did my job in the afternoon she’ll ask for another round before we turn out the lights to knock out the lingering, built-up tension.
Yeah thats me sorry, Im terrible at editing my posts. I read my post before posting but ALWAYS keep finding mistakes in my posts after. Its sooooo annoying I must have a reading/writing disorder or something as I just cant see my mistakes before I post, sorry.
@Phil44 I can see a problem that you are going to fall on when you eventually find someone to have sex as you keep saying you know how to please a woman even though you are a virgin, you might think you do but men and women are different, so what you are going to do is not communicate properly and do things that the person might not really enjoy.
Please don’t go in thinking what she would like, ask her questions first to make sure she will like it.
Ive said communication is the key to great sex, the last thing you want to do is play the guessing game. Sooo many people have sex in silence trying to guess what each other wants
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Wow, that’s quite a statement. I’m clearly failing my H in a monumental way as he’s never, even in his 30’s managed 2 orgasms in a day…Surprising he’s still with me 20 years later.
Or could it be that the refractory period differs man to man, or that real life, or health issues effect men even when they adore their partner and their partner is actually quite sexy and a good shag.
Sorry but that’s a rather insulting generalisation from you.
According to an article on the International Society for Sexual Medicine (ISSM) website:
“Younger men may need only a few minutes of recovery time, but older men usually have a longer refractory period, sometimes between 12 to 24 hours. For some men, the refractory period can last a few days. Experts aren’t sure why the length of refractory periods varies so much among men. But they do know that the length of time needed is not related to potency or testosterone levels.”
Therefore, this is not about potency. Another article on MedicalNewsToday indicates:
“This physiological response usually accompanies a psychological refractory period, during which they feel uninterested in sex.”
Therefore, @Phil44’s comment that it is strictly a mental thing does not appear to be true.
But times when I have orgasmed 3times about 10-15mins apart, the empty aching feeling from balls is just an awesome feeling… I just wish I could do it to myself more often, but as I say 99.9% of the time I just can’t be arsed after the first orgasm…
