Are vaginal and g-spot orgasms different?

I didn't want to start a new thread so just posted in this one. I think I may have had a G-spot orgasm today, but I'm not sure as it felt similar to a clitoral one. I was using my glass dildo, and did not stimulate my clit, but I had my finger on it. Does anyone know if you can have a clitoral orgasm through stimulating the G-spot?

First things first when I squirt it can be from vaginal penetration or clit. The squirt happens a few seconds before orgasming (for me anyway). As for vaginal orgasm I get different strengths, sometimes really strong and other times barely there. I think this is down to where you are receiving most friction, g spot or deeper in or shallower. I would then say they are all vaginal orgasms just achieved from wherever the friction has been concentrated. We are confusing though 😊

Anal orgasm feels to me like it starts in the lower back but I orgasm in my vagina from anal but it feels deeper than a vaginal orgasm. It is so difficult to explain 😔

Hi leilaK sounds like a g spot to me but our clits are inside our bodies as well so yes they can be stimulated from the inside.

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I love A-spot orgasms the most, they are the most profound, divine out of this world experience and it can go on for a long time, easily half an hour or more. They always leave me feeling profoundly satisfied and somehow deeply touched and connected.

Clitoris orgasms are a bit harder to control, they can be explosive if I'm not careful and then they leave me over sensitive and more or less wanting to roll over and fall asleep. Plus they only last a few seconds.
When I do manage to relax and not hunt the orgasm so much, but just enjoy the sensations and feeling of intimacy and togetherness, then clitoral orgasms can be multiple. I once had 30 orgasms or so in 20 minutes. But they were still quite localized to the genital area and not whole body as such, even if they made my toes twitch, it didn't feel like my entire body was orgasming nor did they touch me in any profound way.

I didn't experience a g-spot orgasm alone, but blended clitoris/g-spot is amazing and again something that can turn into multiples fairly easy. They are kind of a middle type for me, much more pleasurable than clitoral orgasms alone, not quite as profound as A-spot.

U-spot orgasms feel the most playful to me, very bubbly and light and they either make me want to laugh or meditate.

Nipple orgasms I only had a few times, but they feel very connected somehow to the deep A-spot orgasms. When my nipples are stimulated enough I suddenly become very aware of my cervix and also it feels support loving and nurturing.

Anal orgasms I still haven't experienced, they are on my to do list :-D

Foxxy wrote:

It is totally possible to have a vaginal orgasm that isn't a G-Spot orgasm, by stimulating the A-Spot or AFE zone. You need deep penetration to climax from A-Spot stimulation, and if you've climaxed from penetration and it wasn't down to your G-Spot, there's your answer!
The whole G/A/U Spot talk is confusing isn't it! Lol

Also known as a deep spot orgasm. You can do it manually to your partner, if you have longish fingers and you can reach back and up past the g spot, and up where the pubic bone is. Completely different sensation to the g spot orgasm apparently. More like a whole body orgasm. Lots of foreplay and a couple of clitoral orgasms helped with this.

so to add fuel to this lovely fire I never squirted until I got good with my wand and orgasmed clit only.

I have clitoral orgasms and blended orgasms - at least that's what it feels like, when I have something inside me on my g spot and something on my clit. It's a different feeling to a clitoral orgasm where I throb afterwards, it feels deeper, like it's coming from deep inside me.

I've not experience an orgasm from anal alone but I do love the feeling!

And I still haven't been able to squirt, but whether it happens or not I'm having a flipping good time practising 😜

so to add fuel to this lovely fire I never squirted until I got good with my wand and orgasmed clit only.

I'm the same and when it first happened, I was very surrised that I could squirt without g-spot stimulation. I've been practicing with my first glass dildo to see if I can get a vaginal (g-spot) orgasm, but so far no success. Years and years trying, but I just orgasm through clitoris. Having said that< I'm happy because these orgasms are amazing.

Great thread. My Wife is not very adventurous and im struggling to get her to look on the LH website, I think some of these of these forum chats would help give her more confidence. She can easily have nipplegasms, but doesn't find that orgasm that satisfying. She usually gets me to stop and move to her clit. In all our time together she has only had one orgasm through intercourse and that was so long ago...... We have recently been opening up to each other in discussing sex and she has been discussing the idea of g spot orgasms with me; she has been using toys solo (g spot vibe and a curved glass dildo), but no success. Having read up on g spot orgasms I have managed to use my fingers twice successfully for her, but more often than not she tells me to stop and just focus on her clit. She has told me that the g spot orgasm felt more "forced out" than her clit orgasm, is that my technique or is that the feeling that others get ? I've been encouraging her to talk more, guide me more when I'm pleasuring her. She says that I just do a great job so why does she need to speak. After 36 years I've learnt though trial and error, too much error for my liking, makes me feel bad.

I think I may have hijacked this thread, so it's okay if no one wants to respond, but I would really appreciate some female advice on g spot or vaginal orgasms and how to proceed. Advice for my Wife either solo or with me and advice for me to support help my Wife achieve these orgasms more reliably.

More Sexy at 50 wrote:

Great thread. My Wife is not very adventurous and im struggling to get her to look on the LH website, I think some of these of these forum chats would help give her more confidence. She can easily have nipplegasms, but doesn't find that orgasm that satisfying. She usually gets me to stop and move to her clit. In all our time together she has only had one orgasm through intercourse and that was so long ago...... We have recently been opening up to each other in discussing sex and she has been discussing the idea of g spot orgasms with me; she has been using toys solo (g spot vibe and a curved glass dildo), but no success. Having read up on g spot orgasms I have managed to use my fingers twice successfully for her, but more often than not she tells me to stop and just focus on her clit. She has told me that the g spot orgasm felt more "forced out" than her clit orgasm, is that my technique or is that the feeling that others get ? I've been encouraging her to talk more, guide me more when I'm pleasuring her. She says that I just do a great job so why does she need to speak. After 36 years I've learnt though trial and error, too much error for my liking, makes me feel bad.

I think I may have hijacked this thread, so it's okay if no one wants to respond, but I would really appreciate some female advice on g spot or vaginal orgasms and how to proceed. Advice for my Wife either solo or with me and advice for me to support help my Wife achieve these orgasms more reliably.

Hi MSat50, I reckon I understand what your wife means by "forced out" because when I explore my g-spot to try to achieve a vaginal orgasm, I enjoy the feeling, but when I get past that point of stopping the urge to wee and nothing happens, I feel like it's not point forcing something that's not gonna happen. It's like several ladies mentioned on this thread, womens body are so different, wonderful and full of misteries.

As a woman I'd feel wonderful if I achieved a vaginal (g-spot) orgasm not only because of the amazing feeling described by others, but mainly because of the fact that it means I understand how my body works and what I can do to give it what it needs. But perhaps it's ok to accept the fact that some women are not able to orgasm through this way and there's nothing really wrong with that.

If you think about the fact that some women spend their entire lives faking an orgasm, lying to their OH and fto themselves and feeling frustrated because they never achieved a real, powerful orgasm, your wife, me and others out there are lucky because at least we are able to have a clit orgasm and that's my friend it's absolutely amazing. As much as I want a vaginal one, I'm so happy and grateful that my clit is able to take me to heaven and back. So enjoy what you have with your wife and by all means keep exploring to make your sex lives always more fullfilling, but be grateful for what you've achieved so far. Good luck!

Hi LuSB, thanks for the comments. You are right, what we have already is great and works well for her. In fact it works well for me as I know how she responds, I've had a lot of practice over the years 😀

I'm after some help again on the sensations during a G-spot orgasm or blended orgasm and any advice on improving this.

I've discovered that I can perform oral sex and insert my fingers to stimulate my Wife's G-spot and I have managed to give her a blended orgasm on a few occasions which she now throughly enjoys as a change from a clitoral orgasm. My Wife doesn't really like to talk during love making so I'm left listening and watching her face/body movement to interprete what she is feeling and "how I'm getting on". She is not a shy person at all, but finds it really difficult to discuss sex, she says she finds it too embarrassing, but we are getting better at opening up to each other.

On Monday we were in the house alone and had a lovely, sensual, time together over 2 hours of gradual foreplay. Eventually it lead to sex and I'm a gentlemen so the lady comes first, well to be honest it's for practical reasons as I collapse afterwards! I tried to give her a blended orgasm from oral sex and I had 2 fingers inside working her G-spot. She seemed to be really, really enjoying the fingers, but then her face screwed up and her body went ridged for around 10-15 seconds as she had a massive orgasm. From my perspective it looked painful for her. Afterwards we discussed it, she said it was an incredibly intense orgasm which felt great, but so much so that it flickered in and out of being painful.

Has anyone else had this experience and what is the cuase and how do I make it better so she can have the intensity, but not the flickering pain ?

One other fact, she was liking the fingers so much I'm not sure I was licking her clit at the precise moment she orgasmed, but I had been giving it a lot of attention too. I love giving her oral sex, yum, yum.

Second fact she has never given herself a G-spot orgasm as she prefers clitoral, I wondered if that was a factor. It's a sensation she has never really explored on her own and on your own is usually the best place to learn what it feels like and how best to manage it.

PS I've promised just to do oral sex and give her a good old fashioned clitoral orgasm next time. I'm still waiting for the opportunity, feels like "I'm on heat", is it Spring ![](upload://ez5kOkpKXRZOxjavAURYmQxVTau.gif)

Hey - at the end of the day... who cares what it's called...as long as I come hard I don't care what or where it comes from rubbing lol!

Seriously though - I have become a bit of a sex toy connoisseur in recent times, and have found that each toy can give a totally different orgasm...as can stimulation from fingers, tongues, penis's etc... just relax, and get to know your body. DOn't worry about the 'type' or orgasm you achieve - just enjoy it and then start over and have another! Personally,I find it easier to have a G-spot or vaginal orgasm after a clitoral orgasm.

Here's a very interesting article by A Dr. Carlen, who is a Love Leader, Sexologist & Relationship Psychotherapist... I've read many of her articles, this one states that there are in fact 12 different types of orgasm! https://www.refinery29.uk/types-of-orgasms (I'll list them but you can all do the work to find out what each is and how to achieve them!)

G-Spot
Breast/nipple orgasm
Kissing/oral orgasm
Anal Orgasm
U-Spot Orgasm
A-Spot Orgasm
Cervical Orgasm
Clitoral Orgasm
Zone Orgasm
Blended orgasm
Fantasy/mental orgasm
multiple orgasms


Personally, I think it's best not to get wrapped up in detail and worry about which types you can and can't achieve. Don't start playing with an aim to reach a certain type of orgasm...surprise yourself! I have G-spot intended toys which bring me to clitoral comes magnificently and straight dildo's (rather than the curved G-spot dildo) which if used correctly can make me squirt like a fountain! I'm pretty lucky and can come quite easily... I think it's all about being relaxed enough and knowing your own body...or your partner knowing it, or him/her being attentive enough o be able to read by your reactions how much you're enjoying what they are doing.

Get to know your body, get to know what kind of stimulation you enjoy - how can you expect your partner to be able to do something you can't do yourself? And don't worry about even if you come or not - sex/masturbation can still be very pleasurable without that magical happy ending1

I am pretty sure I know what your wife was experiencing and this happens fairly often with me, in fact last night I went rigid as you described for at least 30 seconds, to the point that I really wanted to continue thrusting the dildo I was using but couldn't get me body to co-operative with my brain at all. The reason i wanted to continue was because I find if I can continue to the point of squirting the release makes any pain go but it can be hard to get past the legs shaking, muscles tense point. I think if you can slow down the stimulation just before, longer, deeper, slower strokes that sometimes helps but it's something I am also working on so will follow this thread with interest.

LadySpider, AmyA, Alicia4Ever, thanks for replying. Okay let me summarise my understanding:

So we need to relax and not worry about what type of orgasm, duly noted. I think that's more of an issue for me as I'm always looking to vary things to make it interesting. My Wife does prefer a clitoral orgasm, but I suspect she doesn't really care as long as she has an orgasm. That said she can also have nipplegasms, but she isn't so keen on them as she says they are weaker; it's one of the few times she will speak and ask me to stop stimulating her breats and nipples and move to her clitorus.

It's reassuring to know that others have had similar "rigid" experiences during orgasm, but do you also feel it flicking in and out of pain ? I was concerned when my Wife told me this as that's the last thing I want to happen to her.

I was working my fingers pretty hard against her G-spot as she seemed to be very "positive" to that. Thanks for the advice to slow down and take it easy. I suppose it may have been "excessive" stimulation, but we have no point of reference as my Wife has not really tried to give herself a G-spot orgasm (maybe a few times only) so doesn't really know how her body responds; lso I'm still inexperienced in giving G-spot orgasms.

Thanks also for the advice on having a clitoral orgasm first before a G-spot orgasm. My only problem is that my Wife has not let me give her any subsequent orgasms, I've asked a number of times, indeed even begged, but it's usually been in the "heat of the moment". This "incident" may give me an opportunity outside the bedroom to discuss this option.

One thing I forgot to mention is that last week she had her usual clitoral orgasm after around an hour's worth of foreplay and then we had PIV sex. For a change we did "doggy" style. Afterwards she said it had been uncomfortable as she felt like she wanted to pee and was busy holding it in. Do you think she is getting the strong urge to squirt and her "holding on" may have caused the "pain" at orgasm on Monday ? I'll try to broach that with her. I suspect the idea of squirting may not be that appealing to her anyway even if it does "release" the "pain", but it's worth discussing at least.

The body releases nitric oxide (NO) in the nervous system to cause the orgasmic effect. It's also affects the nervous system and neurotransmission so I guess if the orgasm is very strong it may impact motor control and make the body or limbs "rigid". It's the biochemcial NO pathways that Viagra impacts to improve erections and orgasms. Can you tell I'm a PhD research chemist !

It's really great having this forum to enable people to ask these type of questions.

Thanks again for the help and advice, keep having delicious orgasms.

MS@50

PS my Wife has never squirted during love making with me, and she has never mentioned that this has happened to her during masturbation, but then she is not good at opening up on talking about sex. Now I think about it one thing I have noted is that the hand towel in our en-suite seems to get washed very regularly and significantly more times than our shower towels on the rail next to it. I wonder if she has been squirting during masturbation and using the hand towel to avoid mess on the bed ? Not sure how to ask her that !

More Sexy at 50 wrote:

LadySpider, AmyA, Alicia4Ever, thanks for replying. Okay let me summarise my understanding:

So we need to relax and not worry about what type of orgasm, duly noted. I think that's more of an issue for me as I'm always looking to vary things to make it interesting. My Wife does prefer a clitoral orgasm, but I suspect she doesn't really care as long as she has an orgasm. That said she can also have nipplegasms, but she isn't so keen on them as she says they are weaker; it's one of the few times she will speak and ask me to stop stimulating her breats and nipples and move to her clitorus.

It's reassuring to know that others have had similar "rigid" experiences during orgasm, but do you also feel it flicking in and out of pain ? I was concerned when my Wife told me this as that's the last thing I want to happen to her.

I was working my fingers pretty hard against her G-spot as she seemed to be very "positive" to that. Thanks for the advice to slow down and take it easy. I suppose it may have been "excessive" stimulation, but we have no point of reference as my Wife has not really tried to give herself a G-spot orgasm (maybe a few times only) so doesn't really know how her body responds; lso I'm still inexperienced in giving G-spot orgasms.

Thanks also for the advice on having a clitoral orgasm first before a G-spot orgasm. My only problem is that my Wife has not let me give her any subsequent orgasms, I've asked a number of times, indeed even begged, but it's usually been in the "heat of the moment". This "incident" may give me an opportunity outside the bedroom to discuss this option.

One thing I forgot to mention is that last week she had her usual clitoral orgasm after around an hour's worth of foreplay and then we had PIV sex. For a change we did "doggy" style. Afterwards she said it had been uncomfortable as she felt like she wanted to pee and was busy holding it in. Do you think she is getting the strong urge to squirt and her "holding on" may have caused the "pain" at orgasm on Monday ? I'll try to broach that with her. I suspect the idea of squirting may not be that appealing to her anyway even if it does "release" the "pain", but it's worth discussing at least.

The body releases nitric oxide (NO) in the nervous system to cause the orgasmic effect. It's also affects the nervous system and neurotransmission so I guess if the orgasm is very strong it may impact motor control and make the body or limbs "rigid". It's the biochemcial NO pathways that Viagra impacts to improve erections and orgasms. Can you tell I'm a PhD research chemist !

It's really great having this forum to enable people to ask these type of questions.

Thanks again for the help and advice, keep having delicious orgasms.

MS@50

Yes I would say that I have experienced that wavering between pain and pleasure, to me it feel almost like the toy is too big and blocking something trying to experience, which is why squirting relieves it. I wonder if it is just mastering that balance between relaxing into it and losing the sensation, maybe a slower buildup but it seems more about being able to know the right moment to let go. I may be completely off the mark though. This might sound a little odd but I seem to find it easier to have intense orgasms without pain when I am relaxed after a drink or two, it could be my body and mind not fighting each other so much or just the numbing effects of the alcohol!

And yes it does sound likely that she could have been about to squirt during the doggy style and it does seem that when this is not happening for whatever reason it can feel sore.

Thanks Amy, I really do appreciate your help on this.

MS@50