@paulsballs Staying young, carefree, horny and happy.
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I feel right at home!
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I’ve only ever gone in a 2nd hand store to buy lingerie in male mode. 1st time I tried some but nothing fit and they thanked me for coming in. 2nd time I bought some undies and the lady (30’s I suspect) didn’t bat an eye; just rung me up very politely while the other sales ladies kept up their conversation. 3rd time I had two bras and a body shaper and it was a young girl at the counter. I said “it’s so hard to find the right sized and she just had a little giggle. I did get some looks from an elderly lady who was in the line next to me as we were waiting for a change room to open up. These were at three different places and yes it gets easier. My wife would die if she was with me.
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I might not be very comfortable with a casual girlfriend.
I am very inexperienced, sexually.
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I really enjoy going to them. I wish I could go more often haha but my missus doesn’t know it 
I first went to one back around 2001, looking at the booty magazines haha
Didn’t care for the toys, but now I want more and more 
I like some dildo shopping and looking at the lingerie…need more money though haha
It actually feels liberating to visit one, imagining what that toy would be like or how that lingerie would feel etc…gets the buzz going. Would love to have a partner to go to these shops with…
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I’m OK with it now, but I’m older. For decades and decades I wasn’t.
But I was born in the 60’s, went to a Catholic elementary school, sex was “bad”, “wrong” etc.
Basically my childhood and my upbringing went a long way towards me not feeling good about doing such a thing and it went way beyond not going into an adult store (when I was of age to I mean).
I was never taught the “birds and the bees”, not even close as zero words were said to me by my mom about sex.
Sadly, like many back then, my sister and I were shamed regarding sex.
It took me until I was in my early 40’s to not feel uncomfortable in an adult shop.
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I went to a sex shop by myself the other day! I was in london to see a friend and her train home was before mine. Went to soho and went into a shop. Got some crotchless knickers after a nice chat with the girls in the shop then thought sod it so I got the husband a copy of a “horny anal babes” dvd because he certainly isn’t married to one haha. dvds are expensive, but we think its more fun to pick one from a box rather than endless oonline stuff that never works with the tv. he laughed at the the other day when I fancied it and said out of nowhere “shall i put pov jugg fucking on the telly?” 
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Now that I’m older, being in an adult shop is not as intimidating as before. Many years ago we had a sex shop in our small town, it catered to seedy types, and had video booths and stuff. I did not like going in there. Our new shop, right on the main street is more upscale, now there are better choices for people to buy toys and lube and clothing. I can’t say I’m 100% comfortable in there, but much better now. I think sexually open attitudes is making it easier these days. You can find lube and toys in many pharmacies and big box stores now, a huge change from years ago.
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We have had lots of fun In the past together in sex shops and at lifestyle events .we are real people watchers and it’s great fun to see what type of different people are there.it adds another dimension to our sex life and aort of see it as a kind of foreplay whe we have been to one ,looking through all the different kinds of dvds and what the varying type of stuff they offer. Never felt uncomfortable in there as everyone is In the for the same thing
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No problem sex is to be enjoyed there is nothing wrong with spicing things up a bit
I was at first when the assistant said to my wife can I help, she calmly replied yes I’m looking for a bigger strapon he has become a Real slut
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I got worse from there
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