Yes
So you have to be willing at any given time to accommodate his desire. What happens when he is interested and you feel less inclined.
Like everything in a relationship, it has to be a joint effort.
Iām sure he is a decent guy in general, but attitudes and actions can hurt. You maybe need a sit down chat about each others needs and desires.
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Sometimes, Iām more of a peak and trough sex drive whereas husband is just consistently always up for it. Occasionally we collide at the right time. 
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Thank you!
When he isnāt interested - itās not happening no
Well he needs to give himself a shake and remember he has a lovely wife that needs his attention.!!!
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I got a lot of attention last night in a huge way so Iām hoping heās got the hint ā¦ I will try it the other way around (me being the one to initiate) and see if itās the same ā¦
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Iām the horny one out of me and my wife and I always want sex. A lot of the time itās me initiating sex but if the wife isnāt in the mood Iām more than happy to settle for some solo time.
Itās always been the way when her levels have been lower than mine
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Itās me whoās got the high sex drive in this household. I know as much as I was working out how many condoms to buy in a pack earlier and trying to work out how many boxes that would be for a monthā¦ I ended up just getting a set of one hundred because It just seemed easier to buy in bulkā¦
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Haha to be fair if I wasnāt using the condoms on her I love to use them during solo time so I think 100 would be more than enough 
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I canāt wait for a time we donāt have to use them if Iām honest. So many times Iāve got carried away and heās had to stop and put one on itās just a bloody distraction!
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I was a virgin before I met my wife, I guess the years of porn etc has made me curious to try every and all things!
My wifeās sex drive is high and we both love driving new things but my sex drive and want to try newer and naughtier things is always more.
Even though my wife has had more partners than me, She still comes off as very vanilla still and needs the push to try things.
Short story longā¦ yeah Iām always more hobbies than my wife
All the time. Heās never the one initiating but heās never saying no when I do initiate no matter the time or place.
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Give and take and mutual effort. Hope it was well received.
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more hobbies than my wife
Appropriate. Though we rarely get to share in most company, sex is our favorite hobby as well.
Always. Iām horny when Iām stressed, down, hormonal, lonely, tired ha.
Heās stressed when heās stressed. 
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100% of the time at least the last 30 years or so . She has been pretty much totally inactive for about 19 years . I offer myself up every so often to test the waters , but lucky to get a glance or a pat . I did have a girlfriend about 40 years ago that was a perfect horny match , we were evenly matched for sex and other things .
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At the moment Iām (mrs), gagging for it and he seems less interested.
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Iām much more keen, Mrs S is only interested when sheās had enough to drink to overcome her inhibitions. So three cheers for sex toys. 
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Yepā¦always
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