Bad traits/turn offs

So I'm curious...

Be it a one night stand, friends with benefits or your partner.

What's the worst thing they could do to completely ruin the mood and make you decide that going to sleep is actually a better idea then having sex tonight?

be impatient

once my partner accidentally came across as bored/annoyed/impatient during oral sex when my leg kept twitching and it put me right off for the rest of the day :/

As previously mentioned, someone being impatient or someone being pushy and doing things I'm not comfortable with.

I had to tell someone once no several times, it just put me right off continuing what was going on, not to mention ever wanting to see them again.

Breathing in my face too much and not letting me move my face away. Eugh, feel irritated just thinking of it lol

Pushing my head down during oral (with a man) if we haven't discussed it first. My face is not a fleshlight!

poppycat wrote:

Breathing in my face too much and not letting me move my face away. Eugh, feel irritated just thinking of it lol

+1 haha!

Major turn offs for me would be overly wet kissing as I don't need their saliva to replace mine 👍🏼 and trying to rush into sex without foreplay.

Doing an activity you havn't discussed previously.

Spit or excess saliva in any way is a total turn off for me. It turns my stomach, which ruins the mood entirely. Makes finding porn vids i like quite hard :(

Vanilla_Kink wrote:

Spit or excess saliva in any way is a total turn off for me. It turns my stomach, which ruins the mood entirely. Makes finding porn vids i like quite hard :(

Not seen Spit the dog for ages !

Vanilla_Kink wrote:

Spit or excess saliva in any way is a total turn off for me. It turns my stomach, which ruins the mood entirely. Makes finding porn vids i like quite hard :(

Feel the same on this one :( 

Pressure to orgasm, it does the total opposite!

bex1213 wrote:

Pushing my head down during oral (with a man) if we haven't discussed it first. My face is not a fleshlight!

+1 And being critical if my body. I'm not perfect but focus on what you like and leave the critical comments at the door.

bex1213 wrote:

Pushing my head down during oral (with a man) if we haven't discussed it first. My face is not a fleshlight!

A big +1 to this. Is the concept of a gag reflex lost in the mind of some men?

I think someone who appears to bored during sex is the ultimate turnoff for me.

Hubby's sex toy wrote:

My husband farting when I'm sucking his cock. Total turn off. He thinks it's funny. Funny when he has to finish the job himself.

He can finish the job himself? How big is his doo-dar? I can barely seel mine when I lean forward, let alone munch it. Despite his excessive flatulence I think Mr Sextoy is a keeper!

When my wife comes home from a night out and she decides to get in her pjs. Would rather rip her sexy nightwear off.

Women being self critical of their bodies during sex,despite us males being totally into them,it definitely kills the moment!

Too much innuendo all day every day/ turning every single conversation to sex. Nothing surer to start a dry spell.

bex1213 wrote:

Pushing my head down during oral (with a man) if we haven't discussed it first. My face is not a fleshlight!r

Poppy at really sorry but that made me chuckle I wonder if that would catch on a Fleshlight with a face on it,maybe it should go on the pander to me thread.