BDSM fantasies help please

Seeking help bdsm fantasies I'm a bit self conscious but really would like to surprise my hubby with some wild kinky fantasies any help advice tips or ideas please would be much appreciated thanks (no watersports)

we found that the best way to look for our bdsm ideas was to go on a bdsm website were we found lots of sub dom and outher ideas let us know how you get on

If you want to be the sub and want to start somewhere. Just start by using a blind fold .this could be his belt or a part of your clothing. Ask him to use a pair of your panties to use as a hair band to tie it out the way. Assume the slave position for him and . Kneeling in front of him arms before you on the floor. Ask him to blind fold you and take you and use you but in a loving way as he wishes. See how he reacts. Have your bottom up so he can lightly spank you. Go from there. I hope this helps. Good luck. Xx💋

My partner is very self conscious. We found on a personal note it was better to talk about what we might be into. We went more in-depth looking things up on google and both watching porn and talking about fantasy’s we had seen. Also finding out what roles you can both play to enhance the pleasure. Before you jump in it’s good to know where the boundaries are and having a safe word. You can still add the element of surprise because you can do it when he is least expecting it. A good way to start is little and light and build this up in time so it’s not overwhelming. Toys such as blindfolds, handcuffs and light restrictions are good introductory toys. See how this goes and add more when both comfortable hope this helps and enjoy.

Sounds good thank you

Sounds good thank you could you let me have some links or names of sights please if possible?

You could just google it or porn sites on BDSM caters for all levels and tastes.

I think talking about these things is always best. We started off with blindfolds and under bed restraints. Talked about everything before u get into anything and check the other person is happy. Different things get different people excited.

Would highly recommend some under bed restraints. Very good for beginners and adds a bit of spice. Blindfolds are a great shout too.