Is it just me or does anyone else get turned on by the thought of being watched?
It's not just you
I would guess it depends on the situation, if i was down a dark alley and sensed someone there then i would have to say no it doesn't!
But if i knew someone i was with or fancied was watching me then yes, definitately a turn on knowing there eyes are on you
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I think it is a turn on, yes! For me, the fear of being caught is great.
Like the idea of someone watching, but not sure how much :/
It is definitely a turn on for the both of us, though we're slightly different.
We would both be pretty turned on by someone watching the two of us, but I would also be turned on watching her with someone else, under the right circumstances. I guess I'm just male and it's all about the visuals for me.
But certainly having other people involved in our sex life, whether just watching or getting involved with us, is something we've been talking about lately and sounds like great fun.
Going to a sex club and having sex with each other in quite a public setting is something we both really like the sound of.
Turn on for me. I agree with Tracey3x if it was someone you know etc.
I have allowed people to watch me on cam which was fun.
Even considered letting friends on here watch like Tracey3x.
crazy4U wrote:
Even considered letting friends on here watch like Tracey3x.
?? when have i let anyone watch??
bad english on my part. I meant people like you watch me Tracey3x. :)
love the thought of being watched..............
i like the thought of being watched i fine it erotic to watch people as well xxx
I LOVE it! Not only being watched... but heard too :p
haha me too.. i love being watched and heard.. but only when i know i'm not in danger (eg. alone walking on the street at night)
It's one of the joys of swinging, particularly in the non-private playrooms in a swinger club, where people outside can usually watch through windows. In one of the clubs we go to the windows are one-way, so those inside can't see others watching. Those inside the room can obviously watch the others, too.
Slightly insecure over here - would spend the whole time breathing in and wondering if the person watching can see me wobbling so would ruin the mood for me...
Have often thought I would love to watch someone else with my OH but dont know if I could ever do it in reality!
I do like watching real people having sex in videos against porn stars who moan as loud as they can and just keep going and going!
telmemore wrote:
Have often thought I would love to watch someone else with my OH but dont know if I could ever do it in reality!
I do like watching real people having sex in videos against porn stars who moan as loud as they can and just keep going and going!
swingcouple wrote:
It's one of the joys of swinging, particularly in the non-private playrooms in a swinger club, where people outside can usually watch through windows. In one of the clubs we go to the windows are one-way, so those inside can't see others watching. Those inside the room can obviously watch the others, too.
@ telmemore: I'm in the same boat at the moment, I love the though of watching my OH with someone else, but I'm not sure if I could ever actually go through with it in reality. It's definitely something to think about though.
@ swingcouple: That does sound great alright, I love the idea of one-way windows!
Nothing like doing it hard and fast in a downstairs room with the curtains pulled and the windows open, then the postman calls.......
Did he hear that? I wonder................????
I do too but by someone that I know is there. Otherwise I sort of find it creepy.
Yeah I like the idea of being watched, OH does too a little, I'm trying to talk her into doing a little bit of a show type thing on cam4 or make some vids to put online. She is pretty insecure though, but I think when she sees all the good comments ppl leave it may giver her a confidence boost.
yorkshire_lover wrote:
Yeah I like the idea of being watched, OH does too a little, I'm trying to talk her into doing a little bit of a show type thing on cam4 or make some vids to put online. She is pretty insecure though, but I think when she sees all the good comments ppl leave it may giver her a confidence boost.
Perhaps someone watching privately might help her come out of her shell. Personally I would hate the idea of anyone posting me online. Once you have posted something and it gets shared it may be hard to remove.