Hi guys, my OH's birthday is coming up soon, i have a couple of pressies already but i also want to get something to spicen up her birthday night as neither of us have work the next day so we can stay up ;D
It depends on your budget and the sort of stuff your OH likes i'm sure you'll get a few recommendations of the LH deluxe mains powered magic wand or Doxy wand
I remember you said the other day that your wife isn't as adventurous as you when it comes to sex toys, so maybe some nice lingerie, or something quite small and girly?
On the lingerie front, I think these are some gorgeous items that she might like:
Since everyone's done amazing at recommending lingerie and toys, the one thing I can think of that also might be good for a birthday is the board game Monogamy http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/search/?q=monogamy
It's great for a night in and is a fun way to utilise any new toys or outfits.
My Happy Rabbit arrived yesterday, and I think its very girly looking but also has alot of power! I got the g-spot one which is a cute purple colour http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29418 and the natural one is pink
Awesome guys thanks for all the help, the OH has a thing about glass ones for some reason lol, she thinks they will break lol
CutieCurious - we have a strap on which she loves (when in the mood) but she wasnt totally sold on the strapless one, anyone tried it? sounds difficult to hold in
I've never tried it before myself, but the reviews seem good. Regardless, if she's doesn't seem keen, don't buy it right now - save it for a different occasion, not her birthday. Err on the side of caution and get her something she seems enthusiastic about.
Awesome guys thanks for all the help, the OH has a thing about glass ones for some reason lol, she thinks they will break lol
CutieCurious - we have a strap on which she loves (when in the mood) but she wasnt totally sold on the strapless one, anyone tried it? sounds difficult to hold in
I have a strapless one but havent got round to reviewing it yet! I would say you need decentish kegal muscles to get on with them, i actually bought some toner balls to help me.
what i found was that when i put it in me it can be quite difficult as the female bit is short and stubby. Its quite large but once in its ok. When its just the woman wearing it, it feels heavy so you sometimes need to clench to keep it from slipping out! Once inserted in the man, he takes away the weighty feel so it doesnt feel like it will fall out.
the difficulty comes when you move. I have the mantric one which has adjustable angles on it, but ive found that because i have no feeling of the long end, i cant always tell if its moving in and out of him, or if its just moving backwards and forwards in me! So i tend to switch between a few mins of handsfree moving, and then holding it as i move so i can feel that it is doing what its supposed to!
If you decide to get one, the main thing is that it wont work first go! I actually tied and blindfolded my husband while i put it in as the first time was quite difficult. I would suggest if you do get one to let her see it first, practise putting it in without you there and just getting used to the weight of it. If she puts it in and then rests the long end on her hand she will get a feel of the weight when its in you.