Awesome guys thanks for all the help, the OH has a thing about glass ones for some reason lol, she thinks they will break lol
CutieCurious - we have a strap on which she loves (when in the mood) but she wasnt totally sold on the strapless one, anyone tried it? sounds difficult to hold in
I have a strapless one but havent got round to reviewing it yet! I would say you need decentish kegal muscles to get on with them, i actually bought some toner balls to help me.
what i found was that when i put it in me it can be quite difficult as the female bit is short and stubby. Its quite large but once in its ok. When its just the woman wearing it, it feels heavy so you sometimes need to clench to keep it from slipping out! Once inserted in the man, he takes away the weighty feel so it doesnt feel like it will fall out.
the difficulty comes when you move. I have the mantric one which has adjustable angles on it, but ive found that because i have no feeling of the long end, i cant always tell if its moving in and out of him, or if its just moving backwards and forwards in me! So i tend to switch between a few mins of handsfree moving, and then holding it as i move so i can feel that it is doing what its supposed to!
If you decide to get one, the main thing is that it wont work first go! I actually tied and blindfolded my husband while i put it in as the first time was quite difficult. I would suggest if you do get one to let her see it first, practise putting it in without you there and just getting used to the weight of it. If she puts it in and then rests the long end on her hand she will get a feel of the weight when its in you.