Bored of masturbation. Help!

I've recently broken up with my girlfriend, I have a high sex drive and life without sex is killing me!! I'm always horny but masterbating is getting boring, any tips on how to spice up solo sex??

Buy some toys! 😄 There's lots of superb toys for people with a penis 😄

I know the male g spot is at the back door but have never tried, do men really get an intense orgasm from anal stimulation? If so finger or toy?

Toys could defiantly be the way to go....

I'd definately reccomennd a prostate massager

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/prostate-massagers/

I'm relaively new to trying it myself and the orgasms are amazing!

As a gay male men genuinely do have very intense orgasms from anal play. Id start with a small beginners butt plug to begin with and move up to a nicely sized prostate massager. Also look into a masturbator/sleeve/fleshlight etc for varieties of sensations on your penis,

I think anal play is an amazing sensation that all men should experience at least once no matter what else you are into. I hope you have a lot of fun with it and keep us informed if you have any more questions feel free to ask more.

Toys are definitely the way forward for you, there are a plethora to dip your toes into, have fun experimenting and dont forget you can get a refund up to 1 year with lovehoney!

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/

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Thanks for all the advice, just ordered some bits and pieces..... so much to choose from!! I'll keep you posted as to how I get on! Thanks again

Jack Ketch wrote:

Thanks for all the advice, just ordered some bits and pieces..... so much to choose from!! I'll keep you posted as to how I get on! Thanks again

And review them ![](upload://aybhjky1mPlgqoACHVsxChgZRPM.gif)

Hello again! :) (sorry I don't know how to put emoji's on here yet!!) I have a p-spot massager on its way, but don't know what to do?? Do I clean myself inside and out before use? Do I need make myself look less like choobacca down there before I try!!?? Any advice would be great

Jack Ketch wrote:

Hello again! :) (sorry I don't know how to put emoji's on here yet!!) I have a p-spot massager on its way, but don't know what to do?? Do I clean myself inside and out before use? Do I need make myself look less like choobacca down there before I try!!?? Any advice would be great

It is recommended to keep things hygenic yes for obvious reasons. You can do a pre sesh prep by douching. Douching is a bulb and pippete gadget, fill up the bulb with warm water, insert the pipette part in your bottom (I do this myself as I like anal play, I find the easiest and best position for this is laying on your side, feet bent up, on the floor in bathroom). squeeze the water into your bottom, little bit at a time until you get used to it, when you can take no more water, hop back up onto the loo and push the water out. I do this 3 times or so until I run clear.

Here is the douche I use, I like having the 'spray' or just the pipette choice.

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=5181

also here are other douches to choose from varying in price etc

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex/better-anal-sex/anal-douches/

take a look at this guide on douches and also watch the video demonstation on how to use one too

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex/buyers-guide/how-to-use-an-anal-douche/

Also another tip make sure to thoroughly clean your massager after each use, use sex toy cleaner, i have this one and its great and super easy and convenient.

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31584

no you dont need to shave down below for your massager to work effectively as it is going inside you, however shave if you feel it will make you feel better about things!

Good luck and let us know how you get on!

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Thanks for the advice, I'll let you know how I get on.... 1st time buying, 1st time trying!! So I'll keep you posted x