Since we moved in together this year and got some real privacy me and my boyfriend have really begun to try some new things and expand our sex horizons. I've started using toys, watching porn together and reading sex sites togther inculding the forums here.
One thing that has really got us interested is intimate piercings and we are both very excited for him to get a PA piercing. We have read as much as we can find about this but wanted some real info about how practical it is, does it cause any sex issues, does it enhance anything for either person or bring any issues. Hopefully a few of the people on here with experience of this piercing can help us.
I got one layer in life and now have a huge ring in, enhance for me not really for my wife not sure she's never had issue with it though giving head can be much harder with a heavy metal ring hitting your teeth! Healing very quick wife has 3 down there too pulling on her rings đŸ˜†
My hubby has one with no problems so if you are both for it then go for it. He got one in his early 30's, now in his early 40's so he's had it over 10 years. It was purely for him at the time as he liked the look and idea, I wasn't too sure myself but didn't put up any fight!
He wears a barbell in it most of the and occaisionally a ring, I can definately feel it and it does add a bit of something for me and he says it does feel very good for him.
His main issue was that he is surprisingly conservative and most worried about others seeing it rather than the actual process of getting it done but he says a few people have seen it at swimming and gym showers and nobody really comments. It is slightly visible in tight underwear or swimwear if you know where to look, if this is a concern at all.
I'm so used to seeing him with it now it would be strange to see without it.
I have one, have had it for years and the ring thichness is now at 8mm / 0 gauge which is ideal for us both. Some men go up to 10mm but that's too large for me! I wear a 16mm or 19mm diameter ball closure ring or circular barbell for sex and usually a 'banana bar' for everyday wear. This means I can pee standing up (messy with a ring, you have to sit down) but such bars are not great for sex as the bar can slip down into the urethra.
My OH had had men with PAs before and liked the experiences. We were in a swinger club one night watching a young couple, the man had a PA and my OH was excited by the sight. I went and had my PA done the following Saturday, without telling her, and she was very surprised - but pleased when she saw the result. There's just a short sharp pain as the piercing is done and the ring fitted, really no problem
At small gauges (PAs are usually done at 2.4mm) the ring can feel uncomfortable sometimes for the man during sex (it's called the 'cheesecutter effec't but don't worry, it doesn't cut!) but the piercing hole expands naturally over time and I have 'gauged up' at 1mm at a time. At about 4mm the ring is wide enough for the woman to really feeinside herl, and it's more comfortable for the man.
I take my piercing out for anal and also for any swinger partner who is worried about pain or the metal ripping the condom. The balls just unscrew. Â Nether of these happen, and "PA virgins" who try mine are almaost always very pleased. One told her husband "I'm getting you one of those for your birthday!" afterwards. He was a bit shocked!
Well worth the brief initial pain and slight discomfort while it heals. Your own urine is sterile and helps rapid healing, PAs are the quickest piercing to heal completely, only 2 or 3 weeks. You can have sex a few days after getting the piercing.
They look great on nude beaches and in swinger clubs too!
My husband has one. It's something he wanted, it doesn't bother me. I feel nothing for or against it. The only problem is like Quiet said is the chinking of metal on teeth.
My OH has one and I love it. Doesn't add much during sex for me, it's the thought of it that does more for me. It took him a while to get used to it but he wouldn't be without it now.