So, basically, I have been seeing my boyfriend on/off for 5 years. And we almost always have sent dirty texts/ emails and photos to each other. For about the last 4yrs he has liked me to text and send photos to his friend (to his phone when his friend was round). And more recently he likes me to email them directly to his friend. He also goes on about how he wants to watch his friend fuck me and have a gangbang, that sort of thing.
I have asked him why because I really don't get what he gets out of me sending photos to his friend. His answer seems to be that I would love it (2 or more men), that it would turn him on. But I still don't get the photos. Especially as in other aspects he is super posesive and jealous and doesn't really like me having male friends etc. I thought it could just be because he likes the kinkiness of it. But I'm sure that can't be enough? I worry that either he gets photo from girls his friend knows, or (since his friend is into swinging/ sex parties- to which he has invited me to and asked me not to tell my boyfriend) I worry my boyfriend goes to them without my knowledge (I asked him about this though and he says he isn't into it.
I could get it if he got anything obvious out of it- money, favours from his friend, anything! haha, but I don't get it!
Can anyone EXPLAIN WHY to me?!!!! Sorry for the long post. :)