Boyfriend on the smaller side. Need advice

Looking good on your photo too

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I understand the insecurity as I am on the smaller side in length and worse my girth is laughable. In 14 years of dating/marriage my wife has never orgasmed from penetrative sex, but I have gotten really good with my tongue, hands, and toys. She has never made me feel anything bad though and has continued to reinforce that is not what matters. Last year, at no prompting of hers, I went and got a penis sleeve just to see what it would be like to be bigger. It was a huge thrill as she orgasmed from the girth being that much better. I ended up exploding from seeing her enjoyment and the soft sleeve felt like an amazing masturbator, plus the ring to hold it on acted like a c0ck ring so I lasted so much longer. Win-win-win, but also because I came to the decision to buy it myself. I don’t think, especially early on, I would have taken the idea of buying a sleeve very well and my confidence would have been wrecked. Instead we have had a great decade plus of fun at night, have a child, and now we can layer this new aspect in as often as we want

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They most certainly help! Pumps get a bad rap but they’re legit! People shouldn’t get discouraged about them. It’s just like a women getting a boob job or its as simple as someone wanting to workout to better there own body and a penis pump falls in the same category.

I have researched “does and don’ts” for anal. For beginner anal tips, you can go to the YouTube website and look for the following videos:

Epic Anal Sex in 7 easy steps!! - Elisa Caro
Pain Free Anal Sex Guide - competior
How to Have Anal Sex: Ana Sex Tips for Beginners - Emjoy
Preparing For Anal Sex - Dr. Christine Milrod
How to Prep for Anal Sex: First Time Tips and Tricks For - Hello TUSHY Bidet
Tips for anal sex | Featuring Dr. Martha Tara Lee - SheThePeople TV
Tips for First Time Anal Sex - Rena Malik, M.D.
Anal Sex Prep - sexplanations
Anal Sex - sexplanations

I watched the videos and listed the tips. Hope that this list of titles helps.

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A cock ring with a vibrator can work wonders as it adds to your stimulation but isn’t focused on increasing his size.

You might try doggy style, starting with the both of you standing at the edge of the bed, with him behind you. Then you can lean over and put your chest directly onto the bed with your head turned to the side. After that, reach back with your hands and spread out your bums to allow him good access. That way, he can go directly into your vagina without any problem. If you are shorter than he is, and there is an alignment problem, you can wear “block style” high heels to raise up the height of your vagina.

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You might suggest edging and Kegel exercises to your husband. Those techniques can make him last much longer.

If he has trouble with stamina (i.e. keeping it erect), the Kegels exercises can help because Kegels trains the slow twitch muscle fibers in the pelvic floor and penis that control the erection. He has to stay on schedule and do them to make it work, though. For more about this, click on my member icon, select my website link, and go to the “Ejaculating Too Soon” topic in the menu at my website. If you are interested in erotica stories, you can also click on the “Site-related Erotica Stories” menu item and choose the link to my short story “The Orgasm Gap”.

Also, the block style high heels offer more stability than pointed high heels.

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I prefer missionary. Also, you can find varying ideas about this here. Just give it a whirl:

MrHungMissCurvy messages have disappeared. I wonder why that is. The are replies, but no messages from her. I wonder how that happens. I didn’t know you could delete messages.

Authors can delete their posts. It is strange that all of the MrHungMissCurvy posted messages are gone, though. I do not see any complaints from the moderators about the posted messages.

I saw her on a different post and all of those are gone. The reply’s don’t make sense if the messages are gone. I noticed you deleted your message, but it said author deleted. They are completely gone. I wonder if you delete your account the messages go away like that. Weird.

Ive just ordered 1 how good is it?

Definitely amazing really hits the spot lol

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Have you tried it yet

I’m a rounder lass with a smaller dipper as well, bless him my husband worries about his size but we tend to use toys and other sensations at the same time. I find spooning positions help with ‘access’ - if you’re on your side with your lower back arched (butt into his hips) and using a hand to spread a cheek a bit, he can have a bit more thrusting range!

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Used it a few times… deffently stretches the wife and she really does moan and scream while fuckkng her! Last night she had almost the whole pillow in her mouth and could still hear her moan loudly lol. I did take it off to finish though and put it this way she deffently wasnt feeling me. Her hole was huge :see_no_evil_monkey:

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Only just catching up on this thread.
I’m small and about the same size as your other half
I don’t get the thing about not being able to give a hand job.
My wife just uses two fingers and her thumb. That works well for me.

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