The way you describe is the way i feel about it. Probably stems from my youth while on the beach. Imagine lying on the beach sunbathing and opening your eyes to see three blokes standing round you making comments about your body and then trying to touch you. These were english blokes on a spanish beach. I had to leave pretty quickly. Just made me feel like an object they wanted to use.
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Mrs W here …..
That must have been awful love, and after that experience I can understand how you feel… xx
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I do have anxiety issues when there are groups of men around. My poor bottom used to get slapped and pinched no end.
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Mrs W here …
Oh whenever I got that and it was unwanted, I asked them to desist, but in “Market speak”……. 
but I still took it as a compliment love… xx
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Not wanting to derail the thread but once i was on the dance floor, hubby was the dj, and this bloke came up behind me and started grinding himself into my bottom. I swiftly elbowed him in the ribs and he yelped and ran off. Made me feel empowered. Another time at the bar this bloke was stood waiting to be served and he kept looking at my breasts, his wife said to him “dream on love she would be too much for you to handle” i thought that was funny.
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@Wood-Nymph. This horrendous event obviously had a profound effect on you.
Have you ever considered speaking to a professional and discussing this.
It would be a terrible shame , to allow a bunch of creeps to leave a lasting mark on your mind.
As a man, anything sexual that wasn’t consensual by the female, would be a turn off for me.
I’d love to be the subject of multi female sexual manipulation, but as a male i wouldn’t have the physical intimidation that a woman would potentially have.
I hope you manage to eradicate this event from your mind and not allow it to impact activities that could otherwise be pleasurable for you.
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@Wurger …As long as consensual on your part , im sure you wouldn’t be short on volunteers 
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That is so horny.My wife too now has this fantasy.A few weeks ago i watched as three men splattered her face as i wanked and then my load also coated her too.We have an oppurtunity soon to increase this to six guys which she is really looking forward to as am i.She has also intimated that she would love twenty or more and this makes us both almost sick with lust as i would love to kiss and lick her face afterwards.Two of our older male friends and my wifes friends Sissy husband have also given me a facial which my kinky submissive side thoroughly enjoyed.Please let us know if you get your wish.
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Yeah there are a lot of things that have happened to me involving men and unwanted attention to be honest mainly in my younger days from teens to about my late thirties. I put on a lot of weight and it stopped. Now i am older and decided to lose the weight but am now more confident in my ability to deal with anything like this but would not think at my age it would be an issue anyway.
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Im really pleased to hear you are in a better place.
Well done you for losing the weight, for health reasons as much as anything.
I also hope you feel comfortable in your own skin. Maybe you eventually can negotiate the naturist beach even ? ( if you wanted to)….That could be,another milestone.( Thought from a previous thread you contributed to.)
If i can ask respectfully ( so the forum as a whole can understand), was it something in particular that drew the unwanted attention ? Fully understand if it’s something you’d rather not discuss.
Important thing in all of this, is that you are a stronger more self assured person now.
@HappyInPanties…Can your wife explain what make this so arousing for her… and your take on it too?
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I am tallish for a woman 5 foot 8 had long blond natural hair, slim but large breasted and long legs and used to go a gorgeous golden tan colour, still do. I was often told i looked like an amazonian warrior type. It was a pain though men would think i was some dumb blond and could treat me as such. I think it was just the complete package but mainly my boobs as these seemed to be the main focus of their attention.
When i met my husband at work he was different and I got to know him well, i think if i had not met him i would have ended up alone as i could never trust anyone after some of my earlier experiences.
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@Wood-Nymph…From how you describe yourself, admiring glances and veing chatted up, is not something that would surprise me.
Being a red blooded male , I probably would have in my youth.!!
What you experienced went way beyond that and could never be condoned in any circumstances.
Fortunately you met someone who appreciated you as an intelligent beautiful woman ( lucky guy) .
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She was always very shy and also limited on sexual partners.She really seems to get off on being a “naughty girl” now and loves to be used sexually.She also tells me making men horny and having them come over her gives her a feeling of power over them being able to control them.The taboo nature of some of the stuff she does makes it all the more appealing.She also tells me acting like a “dirty little slut” is an amazing turn-on for her.Years ago i could not have imagined watching another man with my girlfriend or wife and getting off on it would be even a remote possibility.That has all changed completely now as i too not only love to watch her enjoying herself being used i also enjoy a nice few loads over me.It appeals to my Sissy as well as my feminine side.
I would love to read the details of this when it happens and anyone else’s bukkake experiences.
To the men on here would you be up for taking part in a bukkake party?
Please share what turns you on about it and if not repulses you.
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@DirtyLouise…No, apart from what i said earlierin the thread, I dont think I could get a hardon in that situation.
Group sex with my wife and a number of couples would be a different matter , as im sure it would not be an issue getting aroused.
@HappyInPanties …As I said, they female perspective is totally different.
I get the control aspect that your wife enjoys.
I certainly wouldn’t or couldn’t have a guy shoot his load over me…its your thing, but I find it hard to comprehend, but im not a “ sissy” as you put it.
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I think I’d be up for it. It’s my number one fantasy for my wife at the moment.
I just love the idea of my wife wanting to be that naughty/greedy.
The idea of being the last to cum on her when her pretty face, glasses and big boobs are already drenched in cum is a huge turn on.
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