Hope this is ok to post.
I don’t know if I’ve over reacting or if I’m being bullied because to me that’s what it feels like.
And of all people, it’s my 80 year old Nan that’s doing it. Last few years she’s developed this obsession with her skin and throwing away loads of money on anything shops sell her just because she has 1-2 dark spots and thinks you will get perfect skin by applying products after products.
My OH thinks she’s projecting her obsession onto me because even as a kid I’ve always had rosey cheeks and still do now and if I don’t wear make up she’ll constantly point it out, making me feel self conscious
She’s even tried dragging me to boots to buy a “cure” which makes me feel awful and humiliating. She called today and was going on, I eventually hung up and cried because again she made feel ugly.
Telling her her behaviour is enough to give anyone a complex but she has this I’m always right attitude.
I can’t cut her off unfortunately. But I dunno what to say to her at this point. My parents have told her to pack it in but she continues.