butt plugs

what is a good butt plug and can they be kept in all day ....and do they help with anal sex...

Hi! Welcome to the OA!

I've had this kit for a while now - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13504

It's a very good starter kit, with different sizes of butt plug to work you up. Can they be kept in all day? It depends on the size of the plug and what you are doing I guess. If you're walking around shopping etc, it may be difficult.

And yes in my opinion they do help with anal sex. Like I said, if you buy a set of different sizes, you can start small and remember to use plenty of lube, preferably special anal lube. Depending on the person, they may be able to accommodate the different sizes straight away, but for others it may take a little while longer.

What I would say is, if the person is new to anal play, insert the plug slowly and with plenty of lube. Leave it in for a while so the anus can get used to it. Then I would go onto the next size and do exactly the same, etc. etc. Until it's easy to take the biggest plug and the person feels that they are ready to take anal sex.

When that happens, once again, take it slowly with plenty of lube. I've heard the saying, "if you think you have used enough lube (for anal sex), then that is NOT enough".

Hope that helps!

Russ

Check you out with your sound advice Russ!

Hi HLD, as Russ said, welcome to the mad place that is Orgasm Army, hope you have fun here, and hope to see you around!

sexymel88 wrote:

Check you out with your sound advice Russ!

Hi HLD, as Russ said, welcome to the mad place that is Orgasm Army, hope you have fun here, and hope to see you around!

haha thanks mel! and this is from a guy who doesn't do anal sex yet.......but I'm working on that haha! *shhh!* the plugs have always been my little anal toy though

Russ

Horny little Devil wrote:

what is a good butt plug and can they be kept in all day ....and do they help with anal sex...

these are the 2 i use regularly http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13310

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=1724 the second although it says medium is not very medium at all!! so is a good one to use after a bit of practice.. both are silicone which i recommend if your keeping em in.. enjoy xxx

mama wrote:

Horny little Devil wrote:

what is a good butt plug and can they be kept in all day ....and do they help with anal sex...

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=1724 the second although it says medium is not very medium at all!! so is a good one to use after a bit of practice.. both are silicone which i recommend if your keeping em in.. enjoy xxx

Gulp!!!

Hello everyone thanks for your input on the matter of but plugs but can they cause problems later on down the line .....i wish to get one not just for the sex interest but for the reason that i feel realy tight down there..

mama wrote:

Horny little Devil wrote:

what is a good butt plug and can they be kept in all day ....and do they help with anal sex...

these are the 2 i use regularly http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13310

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=1724 the second although it says medium is not very medium at all!! so is a good one to use after a bit of practice.. both are silicone which i recommend if your keeping em in.. enjoy xxx

that second one looks fantastic!

Russ x

cheers lovehoney-carly im rather happy with what you had to say thank you...

i have this one too..http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=1726 but don't use it in my bum i call it my pussy plug and very nice they both are too...

russ&clare wrote:

mama wrote:

Horny little Devil wrote:

what is a good butt plug and can they be kept in all day ....and do they help with anal sex...

these are the 2 i use regularly http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13310

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=1724 the second although it says medium is not very medium at all!! so is a good one to use after a bit of practice.. both are silicone which i recommend if your keeping em in.. enjoy xxx

that second one looks fantastic!

Russ x

That second one looks quite scary

I'm struggling to have anal sex, I got a beginers butt plug for christmas off a mate and I can't even get that in me so I think I'm just gonna give up on the idea, its too painful, and I don't like the bleeding afterwards!


That second one looks quite scary

I'm struggling to have anal sex, I got a beginers butt plug for christmas off a mate and I can't even get that in me so I think I'm just gonna give up on the idea, its too painful, and I don't like the bleeding afterwards!

Are you using enough lube mel? And are u relaxed when you've tried it? Have to do it slowly too.

I'd help you if I was there.........

Russ x

Using so so so much lube its unbeliavable! lol! Been very relaxed (drunk sometimes) Done it slight little bit at a time, its frustrating as I really want it!

x

I'm struggling to have anal sex, I got a beginers butt plug for christmas off a mate and I can't even get that in me so I think I'm just gonna give up on the idea, its too painful, and I don't like the bleeding afterwards!

hell sexymel your not supposed to bleed!!!! no no no... how big is the plug you have???? the first one i mentioned http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13310 is soft and little and wouldn't hurt anyone.. remember your bum lets a poo out so a little silicone plug shouldn't hurt it... bit personal this, have you got piles? do you bleed when you poo if so you need to see the doc.. if not it is probably down to being too tense and trying too hard to get the wrong size plug in...

have a warm shower or bath, stroke your anus with your finger using a lube like http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=11373 or http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=6717

try douching with warm plain water http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=952 follow princess116,review instructions..then stop the play.. do the lube and clean routine for a week before moving on to using something like the little soft plug above.. take things slowly.. don't rush be kind to your bum and it will be kind to you

Hi mama the plug I have is http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=9758, I haven't got piles, I don't normally bleed after going to the toilet, although I do sometimes find it hard to go, but I've always been like that, ever since I can remember.

It hurts and often bleeds when he uses his finger on me, I'm not talking a lot of blood, only a few spots for five or so minutes afterwards, it does bring me to tars though, even though I dont believe I could be more relaxed

arr i think the hard to go can be a clue here.. if your poo is a bit hard then you maybe scratching the inside of your bum, making it sensitive and sore.. so eat more fiber drink more water.. and give the douche routine a go.. it will help you with your poo, get you use to bum play and hopefully stop the bleeding and let you enjoy yourselfand give yourself a healthy bottom!!!!

I will give a douche ago once I get some spare money, my diet is brill(or so my doc told me lol) I know it will hurt the first few times but this really is excrutiating pain!

Thanks for your help mama

xx

also i ment to say once you've had a go at the cleaning routine try http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14522 for the first couple of sessions.. don't go mad with this as you do want to feel something eventually, but it can help you get into the swing of things, you still need lube with this...

maybe its worth using the desesitising cream for the douch too.. its worth the money..honest!!!

mama wrote:

also i ment to say once you've had a go at the cleaning routine try http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14522 for the first couple of sessions.. don't go mad with this as you do want to feel something eventually, but it can help you get into the swing of things, you still need lube with this...

Have you tried this before? Does it work?

Always make sure there is plenty of lube, its one of my biggest fears that!

I'll try it, I'll look for a douche now and put it on my list so I don't forget.

Thank you again

x