I have the flower icicles one as well and that thing stays put! I wonder if it's the glass material?
I like the Pure N Joy stainless steel plugs for long term wear. Nice and bulbous with a thin shaft so they stay put really well and you don't feel stretched. Personally I like tons of jube up there. Helps it to slide around deliciously when you move around. The Icicles range is great to.
Don't like silicone for long term wear. Chafes around the 'ring' after a while.
I started wearing a plug daily about two months ago. I started small and quickly moved to a 5" diameter plug. It is very comfy. However, I can't seem to get enough and want to go bigger. About three days ago I purchased a round ball plug that is 7" diameter. It feels AMAZING once inside my ass, but inserting and removing is painful. Should I continue with a smaller plug to get the desired stretching point or try getting used to the larger one. I'm not sure the best way to get my asshole stretched permenantly. Help!
Would the people who own the icicles butt plug say it is suitable for beginners? Because I have been infatuated with this one for months now but I've never tried any butt plugs before
Hi guys,
Just a quick one- Use butt plugs with slim necks. They will definitely stay in as long as you wish without any problems. If you want extra stimulation go for the Marc Dorcel Geisha Ball Silicone Medium Butt Plug with Crystal for example, as per the link below:
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=26278
or
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=6336
or
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30818
or
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32147
They differ in material and price. The B balls or Ben Wa jingling balls will create additional pleasure and sensation whilst wearing them.
I hope that helps.
Vic&Ash 13
Hands All Over wrote:
Would the people who own the icicles butt plug say it is suitable for beginners? Because I have been infatuated with this one for months now but I've never tried any butt plugs before
hello - I'd say it's suitable for a relaxed beginner. I'm quite the beginner, used this last night with my DH, and it felt fantastic. first time I have used any kind of plug, I kept it in for sex and it was wonderful.
I really recommend it - good luck!
totally agree with OscarRomeo here, use the slim neck with a bigger end section.
Your one has virtually no difference between the inserted section and the neck, so your anus hasn't got anything to grip on to.
Jane12345 wrote:
Hands All Over wrote:
Would the people who own the icicles butt plug say it is suitable for beginners? Because I have been infatuated with this one for months now but I've never tried any butt plugs before
hello - I'd say it's suitable for a relaxed beginner. I'm quite the beginner, used this last night with my DH, and it felt fantastic. first time I have used any kind of plug, I kept it in for sex and it was wonderful.
I really recommend it - good luck!
Thank you Jane12345! Sounds like it was a great experience, I think I'll have to get one for myself then :)!
Hands All Over wrote:
Jane12345 wrote:
Hands All Over wrote:
Would the people who own the icicles butt plug say it is suitable for beginners? Because I have been infatuated with this one for months now but I've never tried any butt plugs before
hello - I'd say it's suitable for a relaxed beginner. I'm quite the beginner, used this last night with my DH, and it felt fantastic. first time I have used any kind of plug, I kept it in for sex and it was wonderful.
I really recommend it - good luck!
Thank you Jane12345! Sounds like it was a great experience, I think I'll have to get one for myself then :)!
it really was great. read some of the various past threads to give you advice on how to be relaxed, and it will help.
now I've tried it, I don't know why I didn't try it years ago...
Hi all, I'm in need of some advice. I enjoy my ass being played with, I've just purchased my first butt plug.
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16053
Is anal lube different to lube?
What's the best position to insert?
Lawlove wrote:
Hi all, I'm in need of some advice. I enjoy my ass being played with, I've just purchased my first butt plug.
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16053
Is anal lube different to lube?
What's the best position to insert?
Anal lube tends to be thicker but just use whatever you have at hand, as for position its a bit of try and see, just relax,, the one you've got is good for starting out but don't be surprised if it tends to fall out-not your fault just the general shape of your chosen one
This would be better though a step up in size, but if you like the feel you shouldn't have any issue handling it's size.
Hands All Over wrote:
Jane12345 wrote:
Hands All Over wrote:
Would the people who own the icicles butt plug say it is suitable for beginners? Because I have been infatuated with this one for months now but I've never tried any butt plugs before
hello - I'd say it's suitable for a relaxed beginner. I'm quite the beginner, used this last night with my DH, and it felt fantastic. first time I have used any kind of plug, I kept it in for sex and it was wonderful.
I really recommend it - good luck!
Thank you Jane12345! Sounds like it was a great experience, I think I'll have to get one for myself then :)!
I totally agree. It's the first plug I've ever used and it went in really comfortably. Enjoy it!x
Quiet ones are worse! wrote:
Lawlove wrote:
Hi all, I'm in need of some advice. I enjoy my ass being played with, I've just purchased my first butt plug.
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16053
Is anal lube different to lube?
What's the best position to insert?
Anal lube tends to be thicker but just use whatever you have at hand, as for position its a bit of try and see, just relax,, the one you've got is good for starting out but don't be surprised if it tends to fall out-not your fault just the general shape of your chosen one
This would be better though a step up in size, but if you like the feel you shouldn't have any issue handling it's size.
Thanks for the answers, I looked at http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30703 and think when I'm used to the feeling of insertion then I'll step it up to the next size. I have purchased lube but not anal, will see how it all goes. I got home to find a card though the door. So very excited.
Terri JJ wrote:
I can take ohs cock in the front while wearing a fairly large plug up my bum but I do struggle with vibrators ....think its because the vibes dont have hardly any flex or give in them.
This is a reasonable size
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=1738
and is quite soft and squidgy, for want of a better word. I can get it in with this..
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28503
but I struggle to get a much smaller but much firmer vibe in with it.
You will stretch in time ....but be careful not to hurt yourself. Take things slowly...and listen to your body, dont rush and make sure you're really relaxed and everything is well lubed xx
Thank for info..!
Analbabe wrote:
I started wearing a plug daily about two months ago. I started small and quickly moved to a 5" diameter plug. It is very comfy. However, I can't seem to get enough and want to go bigger. About three days ago I purchased a round ball plug that is 7" diameter. It feels AMAZING once inside my ass, but inserting and removing is painful. Should I continue with a smaller plug to get the desired stretching point or try getting used to the larger one. I'm not sure the best way to get my asshole stretched permenantly. Help!
I find you can get it stretched permanently to about 8-9 inches girth, then to go larger always takes quite a bit of warmup.
Plugs are not the best way to stretch though in my experience, they feel nice when seated sure, but dildos are the best thing to train with. Especially look for dildos with ripples or variations in size over the length. The act of thrusting them in an out, I like to go all the way out and back in, this really seems to train your ass to relax. The muscle memory is retained for a long time as well.
Couple examples for you.
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30053 - Technically a Butt Plug but more of a dildo to be honest. It is the best warmup toy I have found. I can start with this and it gets me ready for up to about 7 inch circumfrence on its own.
I also have the B10 version and it is pretty huge, I can only fit the first two bumps but it is an intensely full feeling! The Doc Johnson toys are really good for anal play. I can also reccomend the Girthy King Cocks, I have an 8 inch diameter one and it is also a great stretch.
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=38686 - This is my favorite dildo at the moment, it takes some work getting in but once it is in, it is so filling and so deep. I love it. After a little work I can ride it using a suction cup and the orgasms are crazy intense.
KingGrty so how long did it take you to get used to those sizes
I am also new to anal play, I have some small butt plugs which don't do anything for me but have some slight larger ones maybe 3" in diameter and do enjoy these
dubguy wrote:
KingGrty so how long did it take you to get used to those sizes
I am also new to anal play, I have some small butt plugs which don't do anything for me but have some slight larger ones maybe 3" in diameter and do enjoy these
If you play regularly(once a week or so), you can get there over several months. I would caution going too fast, for some of the really big stuff you have to be able to go pretty deep too. Take small progressions, the first dildo I linked above is perfect for someone looking to go up in size, the first bump is small enough for a relative novice and the final bump is both deep and wide enough to prepare you for larger items.
I thought it looked huge when it arrived but it’s the little guy in my collection now