I decided to enter the world of buttstuff (because of you guys giving it such glowing reviews) , and bought myself some cute little heart shaped plugs of different sizes from a well known good quality brand. Things went well at first but after a while the flared heart shaped bases were sliding inside! I panicked and was able to push the plug back out but now I am scared to try them again. Apparently this is a flaw with the heart shaped ones due to the pointed tips giving it an easy way to wedge in. Does anyone have any advice or recommendations for other toys they enjoy that won’t require an embarrassing trip to the ER?
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Any of the T shaped butt plugs is a safer option. I’ve included a basic set just. In case you are doing it ready for anal sex, but there are so many different kinds of T plug to fit your want.
Wearable all day long or perfect for adding fun to the boring task. Hope you find one that just for you and don’t forget your FORUM20. 
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Also came here to say anything with a t bar. I’d also recommend anything from the nJoy line. They’re pricey, but have glowing reviews.
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I’ve had the same issue with the normal circled based plugs n have been scared since, as with the above 2 t-bar seems like the only way to go. No unnecessary trips to ER
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As others have already said, a more flared plug will solve that issue, and can be worn comfortably throughout the day if that’s something you might enjoy. I feel your concern as I brought a start kit a while ago, and had the same issues. I had to rush to the rest room on a short trip to recover the plug, which thankfully I did lol. Far from ideal!
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Not had any plugs go travelling but nearly have. The jewel base ones are the worst as the base is usually pretty small but I have a a T shape with a flexbase that nearly disappeared so go for a more rigid base design.
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I imagine it was them metal plugs with the heart gem base? 
The best base to aim for is anything with a T bar style. Just annoying that none of the metal ones have that and rare to find glass plugs like it either.
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Yeah, the little decorative things do not look safe, a T bar is a better plan. I am also wanting some butt plugs, something small but comfortable, that won’t get lost.
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those are the ones!
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Thanks for the suggestions and the similar stories, I was worried maybe I just have a giant butthole or something but I will definitely try the ones with a T bar base from now on.
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thanks for the link and the reminder to use the code. That looks like a nice starter set.
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I have one myself and know how scary It’d be getting it all the way vanished up there shame there isn’t a universal base attachment that can be added on to these sorts of toys to make them safer !!
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That’s yours to make into a £ million idea
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that’s a good idea.
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Samantha here. Yes iv had that happen to me a few times. I wore one to work once and sat down and the whole thing went in. Luckily its fairly easy to pop out with my fingers in my pussy.
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Sounds like it was just an excuse to play 
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I wouldn’t know where to start with on this idea!
Would be extremely helpful on so many toys!
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Lube 
lots of lube
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I will remember that tip in case it happens again!
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