My girlfriend loves it when I make her orgasm by hand (clitoral stimulation), but not so much me going down on her. I want to buy a guide on this to maybe improve things with my technique and see if that helps. I saw http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30865 which cover both this and fellatio. I like the idea of her trying some new things aswell, she is great when it comes that that, but I know theres alot she hasnt tried and it might give her some ideas.
So if I got the book I feel like she might mis understand and think that I think she isnt very good at it. How would you bring up a book of this nature with your partner?