@user1340 my thoughts on that fantasy revolve more around embarrassment (at first), but then being the object of their undivided attention (and use) rather than any humiliation, but to each their own of course! No shaming coming from me on that score.
I agree with you on that point. Embarrassment more accurately describes the fantasy. Bad choice of terminology on my part. All the same, it does still sound fun!
My wife and I made the mutual decision when we first met that, due to our past toxic and abusive relationships, there was no room in our new one for humiliation or degradation or any of that, and thus it is built on mutual respect. I know that’s not for everyone, but it works for us and that’s what matters.
I’m lucky to have experienced similar to that twice when visiting my friend’s house. I was the NM, my partner was clothed, as were the other M/F couple who are slightly reserved. Not a party or any sexual intentions, just a hangout with them letting me be me. (I recounted the first time on here before)
Reversing the scenario the couple visited us last September (her 50th birthday) and one of her questions to my o/h was “I hope Simon will be naked ?” (story also told here before)
As I said they are both really reserved and prudish, him much more so. If she secretly gets something out of it, then good.
My husbands ed seems to be disappearing and every session we have is getting better each time. Although i am getting a bit worried that he is a bit too girthy.
We are seriously looking into booking a sex dungeon for our wedding anniversary this year.
The playroom will be something in the near future i am sure.
Will have to think of some more when we have fulfilled these.