With a girl it was both our first time and we had been together for a little while. Think she came first but I wasn’t far behind.
With a guy it was my best friend at the time and again both our first time. I hurt him when I topped for the first time but he said it didn’t last long. There was only a little pain for me but very quickly got over it and loved it. He then used to fuck me at any opportunity.
The most scary time was with my second guy. After just being with my best friend I wasn’t sure if I was any good but seemed to get his approval pretty quickly
My memory is still very vivid even many years later. He was the brother of my best friend. Much older than me but i thought who better then him to show me.We went out on the town to the clubs. I was so hot to lose my virginity. It had to be him! I was stone cold sober as was he. Neither of us drank but i was drunk knowing i was going to go home with him. We ditched my friend and others. Went back to his about 11. He was amazing. I never in a million years wanted it to end. He went down on me happily eating my pussy. Hours fingering me and eating me. I so know how or when but he slowly slipped his cock in to me. So full i was. This again went for hours. Eventually I fell asleep. Happy and full! The next morning i had to catch as bus home to mum and dad but had to walk umteep city blocks to catch it. SO VERY painful. Best fuck of my lifr.
I don’t talk about my first time for many reasons . However following that things were rocky for many many years in the bedroom for me until I met my hubby and finally relaxed. Wish I could turn back time and have my first time with him!
My first time was a LONG time ago. From memory, physically it went very smoothly - just slipped in, no pain, no problems (ironically so unlike what I’m experiencing now). Emotionally it was very meh. I no longer even remember exactly why I agreed to have sex with him. And sexually it was pretty meh too - I don’t remember cumming or really getting excited. We only had sex on a few occasions and then that was that. All the pleasure and excitement happened with the second guy I had sex with, but that was an actual relationship, which lasted a couple of years. We thought we were in love - maybe we were, in the immature sort of way that you are in your early 20s. We were certainly in lust.
I had been doing everything but penetrative sex up until that point. I was super nervous and beyond excited. I think I rubbed a few out that day just to make sure. She was not a virgin. She was patient. Somehow on this lovely planet, I lasted 2 hours. I Still don’t know how. I ended up finishing and it hit the wall past her head. NOW HERE IS THE FUN PART: you’ll never believe me. I had a fish tank in my room at the time with a catfish in it. This fish halfway through, swims and jumped out of his tank somehow past the lid. (He probably was sick of staring at my pale cheeks ) I had to jump off this poor chick, run full staff and butt naked to grab a catfish and put him back in his tank. His whiskers or whatever they are poked my hands and I was bleeding a little. I had to sneak to the bathroom, wash my hands and finish the job. Crazy night. She was a trooper and never lost the desire to finish what we started.
As a student, living away from home for the first time and exploring my newly found freedom, I met what I thought at the time was the perfect guy…oh how naive after a lot of fumbling I can only say it hurt and my moans of discomfort were misread as encouragement for him to thrust harder… not how I’d envisaged my first time…
I was a late bloomer really. Not for the want of trying, mind you.
Finally, at 18 I just decided to get it over and done with.
I used to hang out with a nice guy who my mum worked with at the time. Sweet guy, dreadful taste in music…
One day I invited him over and just seduced him. When he got so fired up and told me me he really wanted to fuck me, his face when I said OK.
I remember using a blue condom!
It was a bit tight and uncomfortable and absolutely nothing happened for me and I wondered what all the fuss was about. Oh sweet summer child me of 18.
When I asked him afterwards how it was, he said “it was nice” so by that I deduce I was utterly crap. Suffice to say I know what I’m doing now.
I was super lucky. I mean, baring in mind the circumstances - we met online back when I guess it wasn’t as socially acceptable as it is now - it could have been a whole different story. But there was just something about this lad. I had massive hang ups about myself, something I still struggle with, but he was so lovely & patient with me, no judgement at all. Sex was kind of a last minute decision thing which is the one thing I do regret other than feeling so uncomfortable in my own skin, but he definitely set a standard for me.
Since my girlfriend and I had been playing with each other for some time , it went pretty well . Though I do not imagine my performance would have been worthy of a porn movie . I especially like the limited hair to deal with at that time . Funny , years later and I absolutely love hairless pussy , cock and balls and ass .
No, it definitely didn’t go smoothly, and many times after that, for many years. As I’ve said before about my past relationships.
Then I got with my hubby, and for the first time I felt relaxed, got my confidence and began to enjoy and embrace my sex life.
But to me he was my first, consensually(PIV). He was my first anal, give and receive oral. Well anything sexual and being intimate, including giving me orgasms.
Now, I couldn’t ask for a better sex life.
@Dirty-Wife I am with you on that, my experience was not nor the best like all good things that cum to those whom wait and practise and I have practised a lot lol
Not to be a downer but Just a small thing, I think it would be better if people could try not to add the “late bloomer” “wrong side of…” and similar to their comments. As long as it’s legal there is no right or wrong age and the question wasn’t when or how old were you. Those who it hasn’t happened for already get the message that there is something wrong with them or it should have happened by now.
Small whinge over, other than that it’s a great thread to show realistic first time experiences and that it’s not usually going to be amazing the first time.
OMG - hadn’t thought about it in years - and it must be pretty much 40 years to the day…
We’d been heavy petting for a few days at this point. Downstairs at her mum’s place, in front of a nice open fire. Made sure the door was shut & a chair wedging it, as her kid sister had almost walked in on us the day before…
So, it’s time - for both of us. Fumbled with the condom,gets into (missionary) position, tries to line cock up with pussy. Glans touches pussy and I come - lots. Cue much disappointment. At least the fire allowed easy disposal of condom…
More cuddling & fondling, erection returns. Second condom on, tried again. This time, after more fiddling on whilst lining up, in goes my cock. (We’d managed to break her hymen the night before whilst fingering, so that was one issue out of the way). Wow - for both of us. Nature kind of helped us with what to do after that…
A month later, she’s on the pill, so now no condoms. Even better!
My first time, my boyfriend was so excited he came in no time. Several times. Luckily inside me every time, but he got nowhere near stimulating me. Luckily he was good with his fingers, so he did give me some orgasms, so despite everything, I do remember it fondly.
) I had to jump off this poor chick, run full staff and butt naked to grab a catfish and put him back in his tank. His whiskers or whatever they are poked my hands and I was bleeding a little. I had to sneak to the bathroom, wash my hands and finish the job. Crazy night. She was a trooper and never lost the desire to finish what we started.
after a lot of fumbling I can only say it hurt and my moans of discomfort were misread as encouragement for him to thrust harder… not how I’d envisaged my first time…
