I am new here, and was wondering if someone can help me with a recommendation.
I am looking for a dildo, or better yet, a vibrator for solo anal play with myself. I've done things before with household items, like a candle, a broom stick, but never a dildo.
I also tried to use my wife's vibrator with no sucess, it's one of those Doc Johnson realistic ones with cyberskin and it's just not firm enough for me to get it in. So I am looking for something that would work.
Basically, here's what I had in mind:
1. it has to be firm, but not like wood or glass, so firm enough to get into me yet flexible to bend when needed inside.
2. it shouldn't be too big, not looking for a monster, something like 5-6 inches in insertable length and maybe about 1.5 inches in diametar would probably be great.
3. it has to be safe for safe play, meaning wide base so that it doesn't accidently slip in, and preferably a suction cup.
4. finally, I'd really like it to be realistic in shape/look, or as close to it as possible.
I was already looking at the Tantus one you suggested, the only reason why I didn't get it is because it doesn't have a suction cup. But I may reconsider:)
The vibrating one you suggested also looks very interesting. I may check that one out.
The butt plug you suggested, I don't know, the idea of a somewhat realisticly shaped one turns me on way more than these butt plugs. Maybe I'm just too stubborn:)