Having watched my wife with three men i now fantasize about her with five at the same time while i watch.Also fantasize about being made to fluff them to get them good and ready to give her a really good seeing too.After they have had their way i would love to have my turn with her whilst they all pee all over the pair of us.Really hope she reads this and decides to make it a reality.
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My wife has been with women a few times though I have never been there to watch or participate.
She did mention that the last time her friend was so horny she kept trying to get her to call me to come over.
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I don’t think of it as being ‘dirty’, but I do fantasize about my wife getting oral from another woman and being allowed to watch and enjoy. I’ve floated my thoughts with her and we’ve discussed the issue quite fully. She really quite fancies the idea and has actually suggested that if we could find the right candidate, it would be a definite possibility.
BUT.
It will remain a fantasy for us both. Far more fun.
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Oh has me pick her up from a friend’s hens party, but when I get there, two male strippers are still there and all the hens insist I join them and get naked. Seems OH has been spilling bout what I like and they have the two strippers spit roast me for there pleasure. I go off after to shower, but one by one all the drunk hens come in to give me golden showers. When we finally get home, OH jumps me and we go at it for ages.
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This is somethjng that has developed in ny mind recently.
To watch my wife take another cock doggy style , while I was riding his partner doggy style .
The women would be facing each other with both their large boobs swinging freely .
Both the other guy and I would be encouraging our respective partners as would the women.
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My favourite fantasy is imagining my wife being fucked by her previous boyfriends. I would give anything to go back in time and be there. Just to watch one of their sexual encounters. Occasionally, I’ll even search the internet to see if I can find a video of her and a boyfriend banging. You know, something an ex-lover may have posted. It’s not really the idea of her being fucked by another man, more watching one of the men before me fuck her. That intimacy and connection with another lover - I just find the idea incredibly hot. It’s an impossible fantasy, I know.
I’ve been honest with my wife about this. Initially she found it difficult to understand, but gradually she began to see how much it turned me on. Now when we have sex she will sometimes tell the story about how her first boyfriend fucked her in a shower at a party, or how on a one night stand, she let the guy fuck her out on the hotel balcony.
The cool thing is that my excitement really turns her on and now she gets right into her stories, giving all kinds of dirty details she’d forgotten. It’s kind of a way for me to be a part of her experiences with those other guys and my wife really loves that idea.
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My OH had a far more varied sex life before we met, unlike mine which was with my ex wife, who was my first sexual partner. She has often said I should go out and have sex with other women to see what I have missed. I would love to take her up on this, but I would want her to be there and watch me, and ultimately join in. One can only hope.
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I’ve had this one many times, we have several sets of friends that are very attractive and I’ve fantasized about swapping with them often. If it ever happened, I’d want to be in same room or bed to witness it all. 
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Wow i couldnt agree more, but i am too shy to tell her that, she will think it gross
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I haven’t been able to talk her into it even though I said I had read that it often led to one of the strongest orgasms a woman could experience. The response was along the lines of “I don’t think I could do that”. Who knows? One day she might come round to it …
I probably have a similar fantasy too, I’d love to know what my partner got up to with previous guys, how they fucked her and how much she enjoyed it, where she has fucked them, how big their dicks were, I know she has fucked about 10-15 other guys before me so it’s a turn on to know how many dicks she has taken
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But what if you could do that and you saw that she seemed to enjoy those other guys more than she enjoys sex with you? Not saying that is the case but what if? Would you feel hurt?
I don’t think I would handle it too well. We’ve been together for several decades and things are terrific in our relationship, but I feel I get more jealous today than I did in the past and she doesn’t do a thing to cause me to feel that way. I think it is because I know how good it is and I never want anything to jeopardize our relationship, even though I do wonder about her younger sexual adventures. I image there are some guys out there that have great wank bank memories of being with her.
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Not the user you’re responding to, but in my mind there’s a huge difference between a “fantasy” and a “desire.” Some fantasies are also desires (I can fantasize about a sex-filled tropical vacation, and desire to plan it, too) while other fantasies I cannot or will not fulfill (joining in an orgy at the court of the High Fae - intentionally hyperbolic for emphasis).
My wife and I have hard boundaries around including other people in our sex life - neither of us are interested in the logistical or emotional consequences that could not be unwound if it went poorly, from jealousy to STI’s etc.
But we also fantasize deeply and use the fantasies to fuel our dirty talk and role playing. Because I’m not concerned with the fallout of my wife signing up for a gangbang we can talk about her being used by a bunch of men as I cycle through a variety of dildos and going down on her. Just an example. But it’s the point for us that it’s a thing that’s definitely outside the realm of reality and so it’s even safer.
Anyway - sounds like @Hyboi knows enough about their partner’s past to know they’re turned on by it. Maybe they’re secure enough that prying for details would work out. Or maybe it’s safest just kept in fantasy land, where it stays hot because their mind won’t take them to any of the places that are uncomfortable and it just stays a massive turn-on.
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I like your reply.
Fantasies and desire are different but as you mention can over lap. So as you point out perhaps I do have a fantasy to know about her early years but not the desire to actually know.
We were talking earlier this year and I sort of asked her about a certain event and she share a bit more about it. No details of sex but rather the events of the evening. I asked if she had sex with the guy and she said no which I believe and of course it doesn’t matter because it was years before I met her, but I think there was a blow job involved. She does enjoy giving them to me.
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A bi MMFF foursome with another couple is a massive fantasy. No hetero full swapping, but pretty much anything else goes. I drew a load of stick figure positions to help the fantasy along.
We are both bi curious, but neither of us have ever had any experience. During sex, we talk about how it might be, which gets us both going in a big way
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Watching her play with toys while lay next her Watching in the mirror and not being allowed to touch her
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She does that to me.
She hog ties my wrists and ankles so that I’m kneeling on the bed next to her then she masturbates to orgasm.
Sometimes she blindfolds me too so that all I can do is listen to the sounds she’s making as she works herself to orgasm
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This sounds like could me really fun too try 
.thought of being under her control sounds really appealing
I love the idea of her wearing a remote vibrator in her pussy and on her clit and I wearing a remote cock ring and prostrate massager and going out for a walk controlling each others toys discreetly and even around others as we pass them or near them on the walk teasing each other and keeping each other on the edge until we can’t not jump off the track for a hard and fast fuck outdoors in the daytime.
I also have a huge kink and fantasy to try playing in a bi friendly mmf, with all open to playing all ways. I’d particularly like for the woman to direct her and I as she wishes for her pleasure while she’s watches and plays until she joins us, when feeling particularly kinky I have thought of licking the other guys load from her and he licking mine after we had both finished in her.
I had a fantasy this morning of my husband licking another woman’s clit while I sat in a chat naked and masterbated
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