Well did she enjoy the wine and hearing about the dirty fantasy and did she appreciate the fact that you were ready and waiting in just your dressing gown?? 
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Hope she responded positively to the dirty fantasy idea!
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@HappyUser same here, wife enjoys being checked out but probably not as much as I enjoy others checking her out. She dresses pretty sexy when can and has admitted it turns her on knowing other men and woman are checking out her tits!!! 
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Nope never unfortunately
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I.would love to watch her and her sexy friend licking and sucking their hot bodies and then I join in when I can’t take it anymore
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I’d love to watch my OH engage in some girl-girl sex with one of her hot friends. I have never asked her if she had been with another female, but based on her reactions when she has seen it in movies or tv, even seeing her looking at women when we are out and about, I believe she has some experience there.
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Dont push it, you have only just started talking about things openly. If hubby asked me something like that i would be so angry with him to even suggest that i could do that. I might look at a woman and think thats a nice dress or i like her shoes but i am not thinking i could get down and dirty with her. Best keep it a fantasy for your wank bank.
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I bought a truth or dare card game and just asked the wife the truth questions it was a massive turn on her telling me about her sexual past and I got very excited when she got into detail
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Yeah, I get that. It would be a big thing for her to reveal, and she has not talked about her previous experiences with her ex husband or any others. I know she was on a women’s synchronized swim team in university so would be around women that may have been gay, and has several lesbian friends, which may mean nothing really. It may be a fantasy for her to be with another woman. I have seen her reacting with obvious pleasure when watching girl -girl scenes in movies or tv. In any event, I will not press the issue. We are really just opening this new period in our intimate life. Asking the question may indeed be a bridge too far.
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It’s good to see a person using common sense.
Sadly, common sense isn’t all that common today.
Good on ya.
Additionally, from your comments, you seem to be level headed, take a measured approach to things, you don’t just jump into the deep end without thinking about things first.
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I try to think things through, and for many things I get analysis paralysis, overthinking things to the point I do not make any decisions. It part of my ADHD disorder which among other things kept me in a desperately bad marriage the first time around. I’m trying not to repeat that pattern. You only get to make so many 23 year long mistakes in a human lifetime.
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This sounds bad of me to keep saying how similar we are @Latestr8
I’m logical, analytical, I went to law school after undergrad. For most things in my life I’ve been the same way as you, getting analysis paralysis.
I would look under each stone as I didn’t want to leave any stone unturned. Many times that was OK but some friends, partners and bosses at work over the decades did not like that about me.
It made my therapy for the 8 or 9 different therapists I saw for a bit over 3 years after my divorce more taxing for both my therapists and for me. I’d push back against them, I’d bring in pages of written notes and questions for them. They’d want to go down a certain path with me in therapy and I let them of course, but then I’d bring back up my issues that they didn’t want to talk about before to go down the path they wanted to go down. They found out I’d always circle back to my points though.
In my mind, I was like “What the hell?” I’m paying for this and it’s my life. I wanted and needed answers, not them.
Like you said, I did not want to repeat my mistakes. I desperately was trying to figure out what went wrong, to learn from it so I wouldn’t repeat my mistakes.
The first thing I said to my very first therapist was “I want to know why I’m in the boat I’m in.”
I didn’t know how my life ended up like it had, but I was determined to find out how and why so I could make changes.
What kept me in my desperately bad 1st marriage was all the abuse I’d gone through growing up. I had to deal with all of that in therapy. I knew if I didn’t, it would affect me in future relationships and I didn’t want that to happen.
I was laid bare in therapy for years, of my own free will. It was not a pleasant experience many times.
@BBWlover40HH this sounds amazing 
Don’t really have a dirty fantasy but have seen her take our trans friends cock in her ass while our bi friend sucked on her pussy but I suppose if we could make it happen possibly OH eating bi friends pussy while trans friend in her pussy and my cock in her ass
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Mine (m) would probably be her coming home with a cum-filled pussy and wet panties then me putting a fresh load into her. Hers would be having an unannounced and unplanned extra male join us, in the middle of a normal session.
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Nice username.
It makes me think of Back to the Future with Marty and Doc Brown and needing the Delorean to reach 88 mph in order to time travel.
Not sure if that’s why you chose this username, but your username immediately made think about the Back to the Future movies.
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That sounds hot. Would you eat it
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Warmly watching my OH be pleasured by a big breasted lady and then a male comes in and gets involved. We’ve discussed same room couple swap and it would be incredible
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Right now all the naughty things I want to do to her and her to me but dirtiest thing at the minute is wish she was here so we could just fuck in the shower and finish with us both giving each other a golden shower something OH has started to enjoy and she is the one that normally asks for it first
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My fantasies usually revolve around things I actually want to do and think I can do, rather than something that will never happen in rl.
But I’m usually sorely disappointed as in my head I ( and my OH ) am a good deal younger, a good deal more flexible and able to contort in ways that bodies aren’t realy meant to contort, so it never works out the way I hope.
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