Disabled male looking for some advice

Hi
My name is Zak Capper I have got cerebral palsy and I have got limited dexterity use I am wondering whether there are any toys with large buttons so I masturbate with ease

Cheers

Zak

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Hello Zak and welcome to the forum,

I’m a disabled woman with cerebal ataxia and dexterity issues myself, and dexterity difficulties is something I take into consideration when reviewing sex toys. I also have a neighbour/friend eith cerebral palsy, so I do know how these things can be a problem for a lot of people.

Unfortunately I haven’t seen a masturbator with bigger buttons on it, which is a shame because like you, I think disabled people should be able to access sexual pleasure with ease.

My best advice would be to post something on the “pander to me” thread: Pander to me! .. PRODUCTS ONLY

Hopefully together, we can start making orgasms more accessible for all.

I wish you the best :blush:

Hi Zac, welcome to the forum.

While I have not seen any the AI assistant or phoning customer support might get you the quickest results.

How are you with smartphones? Does your dexterity issues mean they are not useful? As my alternative option was an app based masturbator you can use on a tablet.

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/male-masturbators/p/lovense-solace-app-controlled-rechargeable-thrusting-masturbator/a48933g86888.html

Apart from that @Tenshadesandme suggestion of the pander option is spot on.

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Unfortunately I can’t use a smartphone due to my dexterity

Hi Zac welcome to the forum.

Welcome to the Lovehoney Forum @user1906! :slight_smile:

Similar to @JGood’s suggestion, would a remote control toy be suitable?

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/male-masturbators/p/maxstasy-suction-vibration-warming-remote-control-male-masturbator/a49335g87347.html

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/male-masturbators/p/hot-octopuss-pulse-iiii-duo-remote-control-male-masturbator/a49669g87718.html

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A tablet? I’m just thinking bigger screen bigger area to tap.

Hey @user1906 welcome to the forum :waving_hand:

Looks like you’ve got all the advice you need :blush:

Have you tried wands before?

The Doxy wands have fairly large buttons (and the wands pack a punch!!!) But it depends on if you like that sort of stimulation or not. As a bloke, I quite like mine, wand #3 in classy disco black…. Bought for my wife, but too intense for her.

Quite heavy, if mobility/dexterity is an issue, it may be too much.

Similar to this, but mine is in sparkly black. Very fetching.

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/vibrators/wand-vibrators/p/doxy-number-3-candy-extra-powerful-travel-wand-massager/a38977g74477.html

Also very pleasant for me.

Has anyone heard of a vibrating cushion I normally be on my side

Ideally what would you like the toy to do?

What about a Vibrating Pad, it could be rested against a cushion? Although I’m not sure how sufficient the stimulation would be

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/vibrators/clitoral-vibrators/p/vibepad-intense-ride-on-grinding-vibrator/a49696g87747.html

Or alternatively, a toy mount that could hold the toy in position:
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/bondage/sex-swings-machines/sex-furniture-position-enhancers/p/liberator-humphrey-toy-mount-sex-pillow/a38675g71243.html

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That kind of thing I would like that you are right track please more power and strong vibrations

Welcome to the forum! Not sure on toys with big buttons but there are some with remotes and even masturbating fleshlights that have a stroking movement to them… maybe worth having a look at some to see if any tickle your fancy :slightly_smiling_face:

Hey, is a scroll type wheel difficult to use? I’m not sure what motion is comfortable for you, but as others have suggested a remote toy is great but they don’t tend to have large buttons.

You can always get a fleshlight and a mount?

It’s a difficult one, those vibrating pads are designed for ladies to sit on.

The penis (mine in any case) can handle a lot more power than my wife’s clitoris.

Extremely powerful toys are usually wands only. So perhaps a cushion/wedge would help you lay against a wand positioned in it?

How much mobility do you have with your hands?

If you feel you’d be able to lube yourself and put this on your penis, once it place it requires very little to no movement and is very pleasurable.

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/male-masturbators/p/arcwave-ion-2-pleasure-air-rechargeable-male-masturbator/a49023g86988.html

I have the 1st version which is SUPER noisy, and only use when home alone. Unsure if version 2 solved that issue.

Also, have you tried sex toys in the past? What worked well or not so well? That might help us giving you better answers.

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How big is the buttons on the wands