Ive hooked up with a variety of men. It honestly varys. Some cum quick and some took a while. Also depending on how much foreplay, what position we’re in etc. Either way works for me as its pretty easy to make me orgasam and as long as i get that then it doesnt matter how long it last. I do prefer to take some time but sometimes just gotta go with a quickie.
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Depends what we are doing really if she dresses up and acts dirty I’m very quick lol but normal sex is like 5-6 mins
Well, my husband lasts longer than I do! I usually cum before he’s even in me, and keep going from there. I’d say he can last 15-20 minutes of being inside, depending on position.
But it also depends on excitement. There are times where we’re both so into it that he’ll cum in me within seconds. Its funny for both of us, because I’m usually the same just losing my cream everywhere. But he can just keep going, so its not like a disappointment at all. As far as I know, I’m the only partner he does that with, so I always joke that it means he really likes me. 
@awkward-yet-sweet i always make sure my oh comes first by tounge or fingers then sometimes again by penetrating so I can last average tomr
@awkward-yet-sweet but like u say I can be minutes once am inside her depending on position 
Alone and masturbating I can go for hours and get bored. With Mrs Hue it can vary massively. I often get excited quite quickly if it’s been a while, but if I have stopped successfully a few times it can result in a no money shot moment.
Over the years I have always found the quicker a woman cums the quicker I tune into that. Women who like quickies lead to quickies. Those that like a sesson can influence my own timings. Odd I know
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I always cum really quickly but I always make sure my handy work has satisfied the OH first
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Hi, would it help if he wanked off beforehand or you gave him a hand job or blowjob before and then worked on you before you both went for penetration.
My husband can control the duration of PIV by controlling the speed of thrust. If it’s just a quickly we are after ie so as not to get caught, he goes at it like a train. (3-5 minutes). If we want it to last longer he just slows right down and moves slowly inside me ( from 30 minutes to over an hour). Sometimes he has got me to orgasm and then continues slow sex and either before or after he ejaculates, he gets me to orgasm again. I love our lazy afternoon sessions.
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I think it varies person to person quite a lot, I’ve had someone cum in like 20 seconds and then another guy last 20 minutes
Doesn’t it also depend on what their partner is doing, if they are not really participating then it has the potential to take longer.
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Agreed. I have a very challenging time cumming if my wife is not also moving toward an orgasm, and I find it very difficult not to cum along with her when she does.
On the other hand, if we go into a quicky with the clear intent (declared by her) for me to take her and get on with it, I can be pants on and back to work in under 3 minutes, so it just goes to say that the brain really is the most important sex organ…
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If I’m in control, I can literally last as long as I want.
If she’s in control then it just depends on her 
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I am getting ‘better’ as I age, but not by a huge amount. I think everyone has already covered all angles of the discussion. When having any piv, I have never lasted more than a minute once inside, in fact I would consider that to be an achievement.
However you have to learn to adapt and live with what you have in this life. I won’t win the London Marathon or a Nobel Prize either.
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As everybody has stated , it depends on many things . Over the years and younger and in great shape I could last as long as my partner wished . Of course depending on how worked up I am and what position gets me extra hot with applied pressure , view and talk . It has been so long since penetration , I might cum as my cock approaches her pussy . However , remember practice makes perfect !
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Not particularly, alot depends on how exciting I am, or how hard and fast the OH is riding me.
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@Oldman very true
We’d not had penetrative sex in a couple of weeks
But I’d had three wanks since we last had any sex together
So I was thinking I’d not cum very quickly on Saturday morning
But as soon as I started to push inside her tight wet n warm vagina I was ready to cum
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We had a short break from having sex and last week had our first PIV sex. After lots of foreplay, I didn’t last as long as I would have liked after penetration began.
In the moment, I got carried away, and I failed to make the usual preparations in order to avoid premature ejaculation.
A couple of days later, I fully prepared and wore a Durex Mutual Climax Latex Condom
during foreplay and before we engaged in anal sex.
What a difference this condom made. It was either mind over matter, or the benzocaine coating inside the condom, that prolonged the length of my being able to continue having sex for considerably much longer than my previous performance.
I find that the benzocaine coating helps to delay my ejaculation without affecting my erection, or duration of penetration.
I also found the now discontinued EXS Delay Wipes (6 Pack) we bought from LH:
really helpful in de-sensitizing my penis’s glans and frenulum. These these wipes reduced the sensitivity and improved my staying power.
I firmly believe that the psychological barrier of overthinking the problem of premature ejaculation can lead to a feeling of failure. This becomes a huge barrier for some men leading to feelings of inadequacy and failure.
The overthinking leads to a downward spiral of negativity - the more you try to overcome the problem, the worse it becomes.
Whilst in other men, the problem is not so much a psychological one, rather than a physical condition - their penis’s physical sensitivity causing premature ejaculation.
Thankfully, in the former condition, given time, lots of patience, a partner’s encouragement and understanding, and practising many of the techniques suggested in the accompanying posts (and elsewhere), the gradual improvement in lasting longer can be achieved.
In the latter condition, all of above techniques, plus the use of de-sensitising products, can be extremely helpful.
Remember all sufferers of premature ejaculation - all is not lost.
Help is out there!
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All depends on what a mans doing, if I’m doing a edging wank it’ll be 60-90 minutes, if I want a quick wank with anal dildo, sound and cock rings it’s literally seconds.
During sex, I can last 20 or more minutes getting a bj, but vaginal or anal sex can be between 5 to 30 minutes, all depends on how turned on I am to start or the position, anal cowgirl can go on for an hour sometimes but vaginal or anal spoons can be over in minutes as it hits the spot differently.
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Not really sure, I haven’t dated around too much.
My current partner lasts pretty long ngl (from 30 minutes - 1 hour) during sex. Sometimes I think it also depends on their mental state as well. He’s pretty busy from work, so sometimes I think the lack of sleep is associated with it haha 
My goal this year is to make him cum faster than me 
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