Do most Men and Women cum quickly?

The Pocket Pal clitoral suction stimulator.

Sounds good i love my gredy girl i also have a love honey wand which is just so good have you a link to the product

Yes I linked it in my previous but one comment :slight_smile: it’s here:

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/vibrators/clitoral-suction-vibrators/p/lovehoney-pocket-pal-clitoral-suction-stimulator/a48513g86360.html

That looks cool hope ypur keeping well how are you enjoying this sunshine

@Phil44 really until you loose your virginty that’s all assumption, there is lots of reasons why you might take longer to cum when having sex other times it might be too quick.

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@teacake Yeah I know theres other reasons but thats would be my main reason for the length of time to cum, as Im not like other guys, I can’t shag anything with a pulse, as thats 1 reason why Im still a virgin at 45, but main reason is Im soo pathetically shy towards women its untrue. But then again a lot of men could overcome that pretty quickly if they had sex on the brain, which I obviously dont.

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@Phil44 I think it’s a circle of things possibly in your case tho I’m no sex therapist
I was similarly kinda lacking interest in relationships until quite a late age
But at the same time dedicated masturbator
But once I experienced a sexual relationship with a woman I had a completely different outlook and couldn’t get enough sex
My view on sex changed and so did my arousal patterns
In a guys head and physically the amount of stimulation and speed at which you cum are I guess about the context of whether you are in a relationship or not
That’s true I think for sex with someone and masturbation
So what I’m trying to say is that I think my masturbation frequency and the fantasies etc changed when I started a relationship

I’ll be sex mad no doubt in a relationship yes because Id hope I would be crazy about her. So just being in her company Id be much hornier then I am now and needing to cum more often. and will cum faster too obviously, as Id be wanting to cum for her, with being crazy about her… So yeah I still say the length that it takes you to cum its mainly down to the person your with..

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Same with women, Id hope if someone was crazy about me, she would want/need to cum for me aswel.. And I would hope I would be able to tell how much she likes/cares about me with how quickly she cums and vice versa.. Basically I shouldn’t need to tell her how I feel about her as she’ll know with my horniness+actions towards her, as sex wont be just sex in a relationship with me as it would be sooooooo much more.

@sammy-jo recently I cum quickly an find it very frustrating because I can see my wife is so disappointed. When we have a bit of foreplay my trouble is I get to excited and then when we get down to business its over in minutes. She thinks she is the problem but I reassured its me getting over excited.

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There have been times where I have only lasted a minute, but other times where I’ve kept going for over 2 hours. But then, sometimes I’m “one-and-done” where other times I’ve had 3 or 4 orgasms in one session.

I do try to prolong penetrative sex as long as I can and would average 10-20 minutes I guess, purely to ensure Sexterminatrix is fully satisfied. But sessions are usually stretched out so that sometimes, the whole day is one long delicious foreplay.

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A tip for all men, Always satisfy and make your women cum first with otherways then using your dicks (ie fingers,toys, mouths, praising her, talking dirty to her, etc)

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I’m very long winded she says, but can someone please tell me what is a quicky and how long it suppose to last. I’ve been a pleaser for most of my adult life. Foreplay can last hours with me. Multiple Oh for her can start 2 - 5 minutes and so own. The only way I can have a quickie is if I don’t finish :-1:. Is this normal.

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My husband and I take bloody ages to actually finish to the point we often end up getting bored and slowly fall asleep with the joy of eachother’s hands instead (I don’t think I’ve ever finished without additional stimulation from hands or toys honestly, from him or any previous partners) but hubby can’t actually finish inside at all, think he’s only ever been able to do it three times in our 7 year marriage. Not a messy boy, but means I can’t punish him for it!

Yes unfortunately im one of them quick cummers! I normally last less than a minute once inside her. I then carry on orally or with a toy. Occasionally I can get back up for round 2 and then I can last a lot longer

I’m the same

@Wolf_in_White does your husband go down on you with his tongue stimulating your clit? Many ladies are unable to orgasm with penetration. It shows we are all different though as I only seem able to come inside my wife.

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Samantha here. I may have answred this before. My partner has the most self control of any guy iv been with. A usual session he will last a good 30 to 45 minutes of penetration (pussy and anal) before he cums. At the other end of the scale, if were having a quickie before work, the alarm will go off and he will cum :joy:

I will have my 1st orgasm withing 2 or 3 minutes and keep going until either im exhausted or he cums

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That sounds very similar to us.
It does make the quickies even hornier then too.

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@steve19 Used to, less so these days. We’ve both had some abdominal surgeries in the last few years and it’s turned us both off of the idea.

Think we’ve slipped into a happiness in our own gratification at this point, and if we happen to have an evening doing that together then that’s great but most of the time we seem to enjoy riding solo. Toys do it better for the both of us.