I have a small butt plug that I like to use when having sex, or a wank. It just feels good when I cum.
You can use pretty much anything from what Iāve been reading. Be it water, silicone, or a hybrid.
The thing you have to keep in mind is: water based lube only with silicone, or other toys that arenāt glass or metal; glass and metal you can pretty much use anything (silicone on silicone or other types of plastic/rubber will āmeltā the toy).
Just find the right consistency you like, and keep that rule in mind and youāre all set.
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thank you. I think to start it will just be my fingers and then go from there. Thank you though!!
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Youāre welcome, and happy exploring 
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A note for the future assuming itās for you: when you start thinking āthickerā get one of those vinyl measuring tapes, then measure the circumference of two fingers and start from there. If you end up still thinking āthickerā well, at least youāll have a nice warmup toy.
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I have read a lot about p spot and I well why not try to give it a shot.
You only live once so why not experiment and experience the incredible pleasure of prostate stimulation. Itās amazing and so much deeper than a regular penile orgasm.
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Yeah, @thatanalguy , that amazes me how only a short time after a session with a large toy I canāt even get one finger in without some sort of lube.
I get off easier with anal stimulation. Slowly through the years Iāve swapped from vaginal penetration with a butt plug or just fingering down there to anal penetration with a dildo or other toy and stimulating my clit with no vaginal penetration. Most of the time my go to is the long John thrusting vibrator. Itās long enough to where itās easy to manipulate without get u to a crazy position and the thrusting takes the work out of it. Occasionally Iāll get a little crazy and turn to the mega cock chubby. No need for anything clitoral as it gets the job done. Takes a while but once itās in its otherworldly.
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Thanks for sharing. Can you orgasm from anal alone? If yes, how does it feel for you vs vaginal?
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I do. Most of the time if I get off from vaginal sex I need something in my ass or some clit stimulation. I need a lot of girth or some curve to get off without those things.
Anal is a whole different thing. If a guyās above average in size Iām 100% cumming. The bigger the more Iām cumming. The dildo I mentioned in my response is the ultimate. I usually play with that when my hubby is around because it takes some work. But once itās in itās the best orgasm Iāve had and itās not close. Iām not a squirter but itās so intense we play with it on the edge of our tub because I just continually pee from cumming.
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Thanks for replying. I too can experience intense orgasms from anal especially due to stimulation of my pspot. Itās so different from a penile orgasm as I can feel it build and an intense wave of pleasure radiate from with my ass to the rest of my body. Best of all, I can enjoy wave after wave of orgasms. My sex machine and njoy wands are my go tos for best pleasure
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I definetly enjoy solo masturbation and anal stimulation when IĀ“m home alone.
I really take much time to prepare the evening/night with myself. Normally I begin taking a shower and shave my dick and butt, i enjoy to look good for myself and for me it surely is a better feeling if everything is shaved and fresh (espacially when I use massage Oil). After the outer cleaning its very important to use an anal douche, (I would recommend to use it while sitting on the toilet. After a few repetitions I step into the shower and do it few more times) use it so long till clear fully clear water runs back out of your butt.
After my hygenic session I insert a medium iron Buttplug, with a cute crystal at the top, covered in relaxing long-term Anal Lubricant (Recommend. Pjur - Backdoor relax). With the Plug inside I slowly get more excited and horny. To push this feeling I wont put on any clothes and walk around naked in my apartment, often taking a look in the mirror from every possible angle and enjoy the view.
What really gets me going is to tie myself up with Bondage Rope, I node myself a full body harness, butt leaving easy access to my nipples, butt and dick - but IĀ“ll come to that later. When IĀ“m ready and feeling hot and sexy I really enjoy showing myself of infront of my camera, i donĀ“t share anything yet, but I love looking at my Pictures and Videos afterwards ;).
Over the years I found myself my favourite poses, angles and light to take my hot pictures and Videos.
When everything is set up and nice and clean I lay out all of my toys on my Nightstand and decide wich one IĀ“ll try first (sometimes I also put on a gag-ball and leave it on the whole night except for drinking and eating reasons). Quiet often I choose a bigger silicon Plug attached to a chain and then to a colar, so when I walk around or try different positions its always under pressure and really hits the spot.
After a while of stretching my Butthole with smaller Toys I change to the smallest of my suction cup dildos and work my way up to the biggest one. I always try out different positions and settings - lying legs behind my ears on my bed to standing and fucking the dildo stuck to my door or using a medium sized mirror and sit/squat on the dildo attached to it - the view and pictures you are able with this are just stunning.
Ahh, almost forgot to give the advive to try nipple clamps, if you enjoy this little bit of pain then youĀ“ll love it.
Now to my dick treatment, most of the time pleasing my butt my dick isnt hard, but still very sensitive, I like to use much Oil and massage my soft dick while riding that dildo, feels amazing - dont be shy to tickle your balls, slap them softly or grap them and pull a little.
Once in a while I take a little break from all above, put back in a bigger buttplug, lie down, close my eyes, listen to my favourite sensual music and just feel my body and fantasize about the things I could do to please myself even more - Please take breaks and stay hydrated!!!
After a while, when my energy recovered a little I love to put back in my biggest dildo and fix it with rope so it wont fall out, when I do that I walk around very carefully, to not hurt myself, but the penetrating feeling and the thought of my Butthole being filled up is just awesome.
As you can catch out of my lines I`m doing very long sessions, sometimes even more then 12h, I mostly hear sensual music or watch a good Porn movie (I mean a real good production and not as crappy and ugly as most of the ānormalā Porn). Also I always try to have my Camera and a big mirror around, to take hot pictures and watch myself getting kinky.
As a last appeall! - Please start slowly and soft, its a marathon and not a sprint, and nobody wann be injured doing things you actually should enjoy. Also now and then drink and eat enough, so ur system has energy.
If you use drugs while doing stuff like this please be aware of how much you take and donĀ“t get incautious - it can lead to injuries!
If you read this far I thank you for your attention and interest. - Always have Fun and try new Stuff, maybe youĀ“ll enjoy it. <3
Giving this thread a bump as it is Masturbation May. Letās here your opinions on solo anal pleasure!
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Love solo anal masturbation. Not only the physical and mental pleasure but also through my alone time I have found what dildo and toys and techniques I enjoy so when with my wife anal is more pleasurable during pegging and anal play.
Wife also likes to watch me with a dildo or fingers. She enjoys watching me ride a suction cup dildo but enjoys it more when I use a dildo on my ass using my hand to push it in and out. She also likes to watch me finger my ass.
This is the same for my wife.
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Absolutely. You are spot on with your comment. Years ago I knew of a lady who sadly perforated her colon due to not handling the insertion slowly. It led to emergency surgery for her.
Love it! Always have for a long time.
When I first started at a young age before ever getting with any girls, I wasnāt aware of all the tips and tricks, p spot etc I just started playing, first fingers, then some kinky stuff like small shampoo bottle etc
Then I would go to the grocery and find big cucumbers, long and thick, then eggplants, even thicker, with lube this took it to another level.
Kept this to myself for a long time.
Years later I got my first dildos, such a turn on.
I donāt know why I love it so much, physically itās so good, love trying different positions (only ever done it solo sadly) but itās something that is more than physical too, I feel good about myself doing it, i feel connected to somethingā¦ I make it a real occasion, music, incense, candles, sometimes lingerie, some erotic art on in the backgroundā¦. Itās really therapeutic.
Whenever I get the house to myself itās pretty much the first thing that comes to mind, the anticipation makes it that much better.
I wish I could experience it with a women, both ways.
And Iām not sexually attracted to men but I would like to try a real big cock, it must feel amazing
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I would love to try it. I would probably get addicted much like I am with my dildo 
haha
I do like putting alot of lube inside and feeling it so I can imagine what the real thing would be like.
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I know I would love it.
My wife would have a heart attack if she read what Iāve posted on this forum ā¦my goodness
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