Hey @user68 i know exactly what you mean, its that stretched almost loose feeling that you gwt for a couple hours later that i love the most, i like how sloppy my hole looks (and for anyone concerned it does go back to normal trust me) 
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As someone who hasnāt really done much but is open to it. Can you use āregularā lube or do you really need anal specific lube.
I have a small butt plug that I like to use when having sex, or a wank. It just feels good when I cum.
You can use pretty much anything from what Iāve been reading. Be it water, silicone, or a hybrid.
The thing you have to keep in mind is: water based lube only with silicone, or other toys that arenāt glass or metal; glass and metal you can pretty much use anything (silicone on silicone or other types of plastic/rubber will āmeltā the toy).
Just find the right consistency you like, and keep that rule in mind and youāre all set.
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thank you. I think to start it will just be my fingers and then go from there. Thank you though!!
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Youāre welcome, and happy exploring 
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A note for the future assuming itās for you: when you start thinking āthickerā get one of those vinyl measuring tapes, then measure the circumference of two fingers and start from there. If you end up still thinking āthickerā well, at least youāll have a nice warmup toy.
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I have read a lot about p spot and I well why not try to give it a shot.
You only live once so why not experiment and experience the incredible pleasure of prostate stimulation. Itās amazing and so much deeper than a regular penile orgasm.
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Yeah, @thatanalguy , that amazes me how only a short time after a session with a large toy I canāt even get one finger in without some sort of lube.
I get off easier with anal stimulation. Slowly through the years Iāve swapped from vaginal penetration with a butt plug or just fingering down there to anal penetration with a dildo or other toy and stimulating my clit with no vaginal penetration. Most of the time my go to is the long John thrusting vibrator. Itās long enough to where itās easy to manipulate without get u to a crazy position and the thrusting takes the work out of it. Occasionally Iāll get a little crazy and turn to the mega cock chubby. No need for anything clitoral as it gets the job done. Takes a while but once itās in its otherworldly.
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Thanks for sharing. Can you orgasm from anal alone? If yes, how does it feel for you vs vaginal?
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I do. Most of the time if I get off from vaginal sex I need something in my ass or some clit stimulation. I need a lot of girth or some curve to get off without those things.
Anal is a whole different thing. If a guyās above average in size Iām 100% cumming. The bigger the more Iām cumming. The dildo I mentioned in my response is the ultimate. I usually play with that when my hubby is around because it takes some work. But once itās in itās the best orgasm Iāve had and itās not close. Iām not a squirter but itās so intense we play with it on the edge of our tub because I just continually pee from cumming.