Yes lots of lube or coconut oil it’s can almost feel like a blow job when it’s really wet and my wife works her hand over the tip of my penis. Feels so much better then dry.
ahhhh When my GF gives me a handjob, rarely use lube. Its just so slippery! I dont use lube when im wanking myself either.
Massage oil and a good massage, well everything is lubed up! (but thats good for both parties!)
uuumm what I’d give for a good massage …
this forum takes your mind to so many places lol
The short answer is yes. It’s just better with lube.
Nope, not normally. Hand jobs often spontaneous so no lube
It’s better but would have to say no.
It depends on the scenario but takes too long and may ruin the moment if it’s planned too much or in a different room.
To me dry is not pleasing. If wife is giving a hand job she may start out with a blow job then swap to her hands. But once it starts to dry after the bj, then it’s not wet enough and it creates too much friction then isn’t arousing anymore. Pre cum is there but not adequate to keep me lubed enough, oh how I wish there was enough to do that! If masturbation is my approach, it’s lube start to finish. Plus with lube in either case, I like my penis to be squeezed pretty tight and the lube allows that while making it easy to slide your hands up and down it. Oh and I should say, the sound the lube makes is also a turn on for me. ![]()
If its a partner then adding her saliva adds to the excitement, as I have a thing for drool/spit.
@user451 that’s a fair comment
I like to use coconut oil on hubby when we do some mutual masturbation. All lovely and slippy, just normally part of foreplay so does not normally lead to him cumming from it, although there have been occasions where he has got too excited and popped his load unexpectedly.
Yes always and might sound strange but the more the better
Nope after she grabs my cock. She’ll use my pre cum as lube
Lube,lube with gloves for handjob.Pleasurable almost luxury sensations.
Over the years I hardly ever used any type of lube . As time wore on , I used it when self pleasuring or if a partner was stroking me . I like water based because if you over do it , after a little stroking it dries a bit and adds just enough friction for more intense feelings . Should have had some " on hand " for overly intense women trying too hard . Thought several were trying to start a fire . As I approach 68 , I wonder how many strokes have been done on my little buddy ? My guess is several ?
Not for “quickies”, if solo and I have a lot of time I will occasionally. If the wife is involved we enjoy using coconut oil.
Not normally but every now and again I like using our coconut and lime oil ![]()
No not sure why as on the occasions I do it feels so much nicer. It’s not even the mess as it’s going to be messy anyway, Think it’s just old habits as only more recently I had lube for toys and don’t usually think to use it for a hand job
Not usually but it is a wee treat for added pleasure every now and again ![]()