Does anyone randomly get mega horny for days and then go back to usual.

So as the title says..I have an ok sex drive. 2 young children born quite close together has bruised my libido a little but I still want it. Honestly we could be having more sex, we have gaps of a couple of months but I still masturbate in that time. But every so often, so of every few months I get the horn for days and i need it constantly, I'm constantly thinking about it, my pussy is throbbing all the time, I'm watching porn on mute on my phone at every opportunity, I'm buying sexy underwear and toys and pestering my hubby. Within a few days it goes again and I don't feel like it for a while. Anyone else? And can anyone help with how to keep my sex drive up (maybe not at this frustrating level)

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Its pretty normal for your sex drive to dip up and down from time to time. I would like sex everyday lol but its not always possible for multiple reasons like hormones, stress, responsabilities, my partner isn't always in the mood etc etc.

If you and your husband are both happy and content, I wouldn't worry too much about it. But have you tried having your husband using toys on you? Like days he's not in the mood.

Yes, but I think it's more hormones and not doing anything for a while that gets me. When I'm like halfway through my period, it drives me mad. Lol.

I do and most of the time.. Just couldn't have enough. So I recently purchased a chastity belt just not to be carried away clubbing.

Lots of women feel really horny when they are most fertile i.e. when ovulating, a couple of weeks before their period starts. Would that fit the pattern?

MsR wrote:

Lots of women feel really horny when they are most fertile i.e. when ovulating, a couple of weeks before their period starts. Would that fit the pattern?

Last time it happened I was ovulating, this time I ovulated nearly 2 weeks ago and it's the last 3 or 4 days I'm climbing the walls Haha. The witch is due in a couple of days and I'm driving hubby mad trying to get as much in before then as I can ๐Ÿ˜†

Rebekah29 wrote:

Last time it happened I was ovulating, this time I ovulated nearly 2 weeks ago and it's the last 3 or 4 days I'm climbing the walls Haha. The witch is due in a couple of days and I'm driving hubby mad trying to get as much in before then as I can ๐Ÿ˜†

This is me to a tee right now! ๐Ÿ˜„

My horny levels are up and down couple of weeks feeling horny all the time then the next week nothing.

Married-learners wrote:

Rebekah29 wrote:

Last time it happened I was ovulating, this time I ovulated nearly 2 weeks ago and it's the last 3 or 4 days I'm climbing the walls Haha. The witch is due in a couple of days and I'm driving hubby mad trying to get as much in before then as I can ๐Ÿ˜†

This is me to a tee right now! ๐Ÿ˜„

๐Ÿ˜† worst thing is I'll still have the horn when I'm on my period but hubby won't even entertain that idea ๐Ÿ˜ซ

I have these mega hornet spells too. I masterbate most days (hubby can't have sex), but when these horney spells happen it's like I just can't get enough, I can literally masterbate for hours, and still want more. if I'm honest I quite like it makes me feel attractive in an odd way.

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Fun Louise wrote:

I have these mega hornet spells too. I masterbate most days (hubby can't have sex), but when these horney spells happen it's like I just can't get enough, I can literally masterbate for hours, and still want more. if I'm honest I quite like it makes me feel attractive in an odd way.

I think that women who are sexually satisfied - by whatever means - tend to have a confident air about them. In my case I think some of it comes with age. With a dose of 'sod it' thrown in.

I am horny a lot of the time , but when summer hits and I am wearing less and laying in the sun I kick it up a notch . With an inactive wife and now that our 17 year old grandson is living with us , I can't lounge about the house in a thong , cock sock or naked like I would prefer . It also really limits pictures for LH . Though every once in a while something I read here or a particular photo will get me even hornier than normal . Guess I am lucky that at my age I still have a lot of sex drive !

Yep. I assume it's just the fluctuating combo of hormones, stress, tiredness.

Oh yes! It's definitely hormonal but I wish it would tie in better with hubby's shifts! He's a paramedic manager doing 12 hour shifts but rarely gets away on time so I'm sitting at home, raring to go and then he wanders in, too tired to even think about it.

Iโ€™d love to be in the house for these type of sessions, masturbating by a F is a huge turn on.
Mutual is great but canโ€™t get the OH comfortable enough to indulge.
Hours is pretty impressive. Weโ€™re cum & done.

When Iโ€™m ovulating yes!!!

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My wife goes through this often, and I do as well. It definitely has something to do with stress levels and even something as simple as seeing a sex pic or reading something sexy.

Yes,being a lingerie wearing/loving male as well as wearing feminine clothing on an evening i am always horny to some degree.Then,every few weeks my levels seem to go through the roof and it can last for a week during which time i masturbate at least once a day as well as sex every day with my wife.It can be as little as a teasing feel of my lace bra across my large sensitive nipples or giving me a flash of her knickers whilst out. If she mentions a kinky session with one of her exes iโ€™m instantly hard and i tell her iโ€™m ready to go where others have been before me which then gets her even more vocal and descriptive leading to even greater heights of arousal.Also during this time when in the bedroom or wherever if i so much as set eyes on one of her realiistic dildoes for some reason it is straight in my mouth and i bring myself off as i suck.She will always make me come all over it and then lick it clean afterwards and the thought of this a few hours or a day later sets me off again.I am closer to 70 years old than 60 and it never ceases to amaze both my wife and I this level of horniness.Maybe itโ€™s because sheโ€™s 20 years my junior and my subconscious level is working away in the background.Whatever it is i do feel Blessed.