Me too, @Dirty-Wife
. I’m so much worse at it when I’m tired too. A really terrible lover, I’m told ![]()
Definitely less. Though im used to low libido so can use sex as stress relief, just takes more warm up
Less
Unfortunately less, don’t think it has any effect on hubs as he’s always horny even when stressed to the max ![]()
Definitely more ![]()
Nothing makes me less horny
Definitely less, wish it was more, but it is sadly not the case.
Less horny usually… Unless I am ill, then as I recover, its more!
Less - I get grumpy and when that happens my wife shuts down. The kids get on my nerves and when I get mad at them my wife jumps to their defence and shelters them.
I do it to myself with my attitude as I drive people away or shut down when I am overwhelmed. I don’t think I am less horny, just not as likely to have a willing participant for an outlet…
It makes me more horny and my girl less horny…
As long as I keep my girl from stressing all is good!
Stress makes me less horny.
Exactly the same as OP
My OH is going through some stressful times at the moment and sex is the absolute last thing on her mind!
When I’m stressed I do find that I am horny at the same time. I find myself having a quick masturbation session to try and release some of that stress.
Definitely less horny when feeling stressed.
I can’t get in the frame of mind for anything sexual because my mind is elsewhere… Stressing.
Sometimes I feel bad for my hubby but I let him know how I’m feeling so he’s aware.
I’ve been really trying hard to try and remain as stress free as possible - but it’s impossible right now with so much going on.
Definitely less horny if I am stressed or shattered
Less definitely less
My sex drive shoots through the roof when I’m stressed, my guy is the opposite though ![]()
Just as well I have a good collection ![]()
Less horny if super stressed . When a young rescue person , I would sometimes reduce my stress after a rough fire or rescue call and have a mini sexathon with my girlfriend at the time . Funny thing is after an adrenalin filled multi hour operation with maximum physical and mental stress ( real , not imagined ) and cumming multiple times and licking pussy for an hour or two , I could totally relax . In the current state of affairs worldwide much of our stress in imagined and or generated by our governments or media . Just say no to the news . Watch porn or a classic movie instead !
I’d like to highlight Social Media to this also, one of the biggest contributors of stress in so many different ways too.
But yes, for me intimacy and sex makes me feel loved, safe, secure, validated and allows me to get away from things for a while, and of course raises all the endorphins and such like. I like to say that it grounds me - of course there are times I just want that natural high to change how I feel, being in recovery and all. Important for me to check in with myself whats going on around stress and my behavior around it to keep myself well.