Does watching others get you hot?

We stayed in London one and looked out the window across to another hotel and caught a couple having sex. I called my other half over and she was loving it and got all horny, she sucked me off in full view of the other couple .

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Good post…yes the idea of this does appeal.!!
Had sex at widow of a high rise hotel in Glasgow… probably too high to be seen, but still a big turn on.
Also at window of country house hotel.
We did see a couple having what was supposed to be a sneaky bonk on a nudist beach… werent brave enough to give it a go but enjoyed watching…:pensive:

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Yep that’s a major turn on for me watching and being watched. The big hotel window looking over the city while having sex is on my to do list.

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It’s such a turn on! Recommend that. You’ll love it if you like being watched.

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Hi @ Holly_Love
It was a big turn on for us.
Please post how it was , when you tick if off your to do list.

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@Iwill I’m sure we will be posting all about it but doesn’t look likely any time soon. Will even put some photos on fetlife I expect.

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A massive turn-on. One of the reasons we want to go to a sex club or party post-covid. Even if we don’t end up playing with others. Being around sexy people doing sexy things would be a great evening :grinning:

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There is definite excitement in either watching or being watched. We’ve really enjoyed being ‘nearly’ visible and definitely audible when we’ve been on holiday. Occasionally with the doors open and almost on the balcony, or going at it when we know there are people in the next room with wafer thin walls. We both got into the idea after seeing a young couple banging away on a nearby balcony a few years ago. Big turn on!

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Definitely gets me hot. Watching and being watched. It really is my thing.

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This is a big fantasy for me and my OH, we would.love to watch and be watched

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Yes, but only when I know they’re okay with it/consenting. If I stumbled across someone I’d turn away because it feels wrong. :confused:

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Yes did similar in daylight. Just something we found arousing and quite risky for my OH to do.

Definitely a turn on for me… and I think probably for most people otherwise porn wouldn’t be half so popular! :rofl:

Love the idea of watching and being watched by other couples and been a little bit exhibitionist (sound not visual) at music festivals but wouldn’t in regular hotels because I certainly wouldn’t want to be overheard by families or anyone who’d be offended rather than turned on.

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Certainly a turn on, once the wife was leaning on the hotel balcony wearing a play suit and no knickers I fingered her and she came on my fingers , a day or so later she realised that we had been in full view from the hotel pool :wink::wink:

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Yes definitely. I can imagine real excitement in the experience of watching or being watched. The opportunity has never arisen yet. But enjoyed reading some of the stories & experiences above. :fire:

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We stayed in a hotel a few years back and had the most fantastic sex. The next morning the people who we were with (who had stayed in separate rooms) mentioned how they had heard someone banging away loud and proud for at least an hour. We both went a little red faced but then my husband and I sort of found it a bit of a thrill?! They didn’t think it had been us but we knew fine well it was …

We’ve also had sex on a beach under the stars whilst in full view of anyone walking past whilst on holiday. I was more bothered about the sand getting everywhere than people seeing/ watching.

But probably our biggest exhibition thing was when we did it over a balcony in full view of the hotel at night… we’ve done that a few times to be honest so as not to wake the kids.

If I was to see another couple at it I’d most likely look away as I’d want to give them privacy. But yeh - I guess it would make me think and certainly put me in the mood.

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With covid it’s a no go though as no travel… I wouldn’t be bending over balconies here at home. I am however pretty sure we’ve been heard by the neighbours a fair few times.

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Yeh same here with the recognition thing and also my body image. I don’t like my weight/ size but if do lose some weight (fat chance LITERALLY FAT) I might be more willing.

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