Yes, they call them potty parties or so I hear 
X han
Exactly. Why, what, when, where, who and howā¦??
X han
I think sheāll have some competition soon with all these belly laughs youāre giving me!!!
X han
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I need cheering up and that certainly made me smile.
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No way, he did say that was his favourite food!! I donāt know how it ranked on his list though with his other favourite foods!?
X han
Well said.
I agree as Iāve made a comment on the forum before that Iām not into scat play of any kind myself, never will be either.
@Hannahnim Iām glad heās your ex. Leaving scat play out, how he went about it, what he said to you etc. was beyond wrong. The way he treated you was wrong, even if the topic were about a different subject.
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Nope, not into this particular fetish at all.
@Hannahnim sorry to hear about your experience.
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Firstly, Iām all for folk being open about things they want to try / have previously done, and discussing why you think the other person to consider it. But its tackle one boundary at a time and respect when it is a no, or no but lets talk about it later. My OH when we were active is very vanilla so I knew after hitting a few boundaries not to ask or discuss anymore. You should never have had to go through that.
Also thatās is just disgusting. I can just about get my head round people wanting peed on, it would be a firm no from me though although Iām prepared to hear the pitch. With nearly everything else being at worst a no but we can discuss it again in the future. Anything to do with poo and sick would just scare me off.
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Itās bad enough when hubby flushes and he walks away but it doesnāt go down, just the sight of it makes me want to retch the thought of eating poop is just so discusting.
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@Hannahnim Scat is most certainly a real kink. Iāve never thought about trying it, nor have I wanted a partner to do it to me. I also heard that in Dubai very rich men pay women thousands of pounds to allow the male to scat on the womanās face.
Now donāt get me wrong, if a little nugget fell out during anal, that wouldnāt bother us what so ever, but we would stop immediately and try to cleanse a little bit more just to clear any remains out before continuing. That would be as far as weāre willing to go in the terms of poo!
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Oh yes, I have heard of them and wished it wasnāt true but probably is 
I do truly worry about peoples mental health doing things like that. That idiot ex wasnāt bothered about my mental health. I think he took advantage of my naivety being that age as well. I seem to be the only person on here who seems to have had the honour of pairing up with someone like that, Iāve come to the conclusion I must be a freak magnet. 
Yes, I have had the honour of coming face-to-face with a Mr. Hankie while using one of my toys (the search for the right douche continues) and gave him a good send off down the U bend where he rightly belongs! 
X Han
Oh yeah, that sounds familiarā¦ the duplicity and mind games and manipulations are soul destroying, Iāve been single for ages partly because of that. For the sake of my mental health really. The one after that poo guy gave me a fake name and had a secret wife and family and it slowly unravelled over four years and I was made out to be the baddie in the end when it was him. I could tell straight away from when he first kissed me (cher is right!) on the first date that he was hiding something and it took years of detective work to figure it out. In the end It was left to me to tell his wife and his marriage and family imploded and so did my trust 
Just give me something that buzzes instead!! 
X han
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Yeah, he was a loser Iām just glad I didnāt do it I am wondering now whether all the stuff that he said that him and his ex-girlfriend got it to was actually real or just a manipulation. It does make me wonder.
Yeah, Iāve had a visit from Mr. Hankie as well when doing certain activities and heās been sent off down the U bend where he belongs! The search for a good douche continues!
It was 2001 when this happened, I canāt say how old I was because of the rules but I remember even then there was a lot of porn on the Internet, it happened overnight with the Internet but getting advice with things like this, iām not so sure. I canāt remember exactly but Iām guessing most likely I wouldāve done an Internet search at the time to see what others thought and whether it was just me because he really made out I was a boring oaf because I wouldnāt do x, y and z.
That is disgusting about that person dumping in public places and taking pictures, I bet it was a nice countryside place as well 
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The first guy (my ex-ex haha) had a wife and two young children and he wanted to have an affair with me to basically cheat his way out of his marriage, I said not a chance so he turned emotionally abusive, told me that it was a āyou problemā when I was having a bad day etc. That all went incredibly toxic (he even had the audacity to call me the toxic one first, despite him being jealous towards my husband and me saying itās ethical or not at all - I literally just wanted to know that his wife knew about me and was happy for us to continue our relationship!). When we broke up and he found a new girl and said we should cut contact I wasnāt sad: I posted āThank You Very Muchā from Scrooge on my Facebook, because that was exactly how I felt towards her, I also let off a confetti canon on New Yearās Eve to celebrate my new freedom. I donāt care if it was petty, I was finally free! Haha.
Oh and for the record, his wife found out that he was/was planning to cheat on her and she divorced him. Guess who he turned to because he wanted some sympathy, and guess who told him that āthat sounds like a you problemā? 
My other partner now is married but itās completely different circumstances. His kid is an adult in his own right (I would have shut it down if he wasnāt because Iām not ruining some little kidās future) and heās unhappy in his marriage, so Iām basically like āif youāre going to pursue me then you know the risks of pursuing me and you accept the risks of pursuing meā. He knows and accepts them fully and chooses to do so every day 
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Ummm not to judge or anything but for me thatād definitely be an eww! 
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Hmm my sister had one of those. Married but unhappy, claimed his wife knew about him and my sister, turned out she didnāt and as far as his wife knew there wasnāt a problem. My sister knew where they lived and she waited outside their house and saw them together all lovey dovey and saw that his wife looked about 8 months pregnant. Really screwed with my sisterās head and she became an alcoholic. That was about twenty years ago and heās still with his wife.
Oh hell no, each to their ownā¦. OH got me to pee on her before in the shower 
she loved it
Yikes no!
I use the lovehoney shower douche. It works wonders for me, however it depends on how far you can go. If you go really deep a shower attachment is definitely a needs must.
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