I am posting on here as I am at a bit of a loss as to where to find the information I need or even the right people to talk to.
I have been with hubby for over 15 years and we have had a bumpy ride emotionally. His work have been less than supportive and I have been battling mild depression / anxiety since my first son was born. I have 2 amazing boys and a job that I love but it means working away a lot. I am quite a spiritual person so can see all sides of discussions and can accept the opinions of others quite easily.
Recently Hubby and I have embarked on an amazing journey into finding ourselves and connecting with each other again. Our strength is communication and I have never felt closer to him than in the past month. I have been wanting sex with him for a few years and had nothing as he has not been in the right place for himself. This has changed recently and it has taken me back to when we first met.
He has opened my eyes to parts of my personality and self worth that I never knew existed. It has been brilliant but am wondering if anyone else has had such a high on reconnecting with a partner that it has fallen flat and gone back to where it used to be as soon as something serious has reared itâs head? How did you guys get round it?
I am trying to balance the growth of my personality with being myself at work and the feeling of being torn between 2 âhatsâ makes things tough.
I would appreciate knowing this may have happened to others and any words of wisdom would be appreciated.