The phone thing is because he runs his own company and is usually the only one in the office so I was surprised to hear a woman pick up. A weekend away usually helps but when we get back it's worse because he has to catch up so is even more stressed.
We are a brilliant couple and he's an amazing man, this is really the only problem we have, when I get stressed I go quiet, when he gets stressed he gets short with me
There really are no problems, we're just going through a rough time, I just needed to vent, as jess said, writing it down really helps