Emotional wreck

The phone thing is because he runs his own company and is usually the only one in the office so I was surprised to hear a woman pick up. A weekend away usually helps but when we get back it's worse because he has to catch up so is even more stressed.

We are a brilliant couple and he's an amazing man, this is really the only problem we have, when I get stressed I go quiet, when he gets stressed he gets short with me
There really are no problems, we're just going through a rough time, I just needed to vent, as jess said, writing it down really helps

No I was just explaining the point as a few people picked up on it. Getting him to talk is like pulling teeth, whereas I can't settle until I've said everything on my mind. He runs the company pretty much single handedly, he has a part time receptionist and a part time salesman. So he's constantly on call and any day off is a day he's meant to be working in his mind