So recently me and the OH were having really intense, wild sex and for some reason my hand ended up on his throat. I held on tight for a few moments before letting go and without saying a word he did it straight back to me. It was so intense and incredible.
Now it's quickly become a regular thing. But we're very safe with it and pay full attention to what the other person is doing and we even have a safety gesture if it goes too far. (Two taps on the side of the face means stop.) We've been together over two years and trust each other.
What I was wondering is, is this really weird or are other people into it too? Is there safer ways of doing it?