experimenting anal

im not sure I like the thought of a porno but who knows it might suprise me.. would jokingly initiating it to see what he says work? I dont want to seem all seriois and him be put off by me if he doesn't like the ideas if that makes sence.. its taken me 3 years to get to this stage and not sure if he will even let me do it again.. I hope so tho!

We started with Anal a number of years ago but mainly just me on my OH but I have recently encouraged her to 'explore' in that area on me. I must admit that it really does heighten the pleasure (although I will be looking at advice around the subject as I am only really starting out)

Chiddler wrote:

We started with Anal a number of years ago but mainly just me on my OH but I have recently encouraged her to 'explore' in that area on me. I must admit that it really does heighten the pleasure (although I will be looking at advice around the subject as I am only really starting out)

Hi Chiddler, my OH and I have been practising anal for quite a while. It's mostly she doing it to me. We both enjoy when she is putting her hand and a quite big part of her arm into me, she feels the power and I the joy. She is also regularly pegging me, we have just bought docs harness with a vibrating 8 inch dildo. It will arrive this Thursday and we can hardly wait for it.

My advice is - go step by step, use lots of lube and become used to more and more fingers inside you, or bigger and bigger tools. I started with but plugs, wearing them for some hours before my wife 'took over' with her fingers.

Forgot to ask.. is there a technique to fingering a guy? Whats best to 'hit the spot'

Rachel_1991 wrote:

Forgot to ask.. is there a technique to fingering a guy? Whats best to 'hit the spot'

with your hand palm side up , use one or two fingers , if he's accomodating use three , get them in down to the knuckle , and curl them up and stroke the inside of his ass you'll know when you've hit the spot , cos he'll be begging for more Lol ![](upload://h7LJ67OOrR57VDYrj5ZEwwHAfLG.gif)

Nimean wrote:

I was thinking about this the other day...

1. Prostate massages are f*cking awesome! i swear, I've never cum so hard in my life. Always encourage them when offered

2. There are some interesting toys available for the curious male, some good, some bad but thats life

3. liquid silk is my firm favourate for anything anal..lasts much better than that aqueous naff

4. Looking past toys, whats the female perspective on pegging? i'm exploring the topic with current dom/sub literature but want more of a practical voice..

I bought a beginners strap on kit for us to use. And my god, it turned me on so much using it! He's not adverse to things in his bum but he said it was a weird sensation with the friction. He wasn't sure if he liked it but he said when he finished, it felt amazing.

I love the power of using one. Massive, massive turn on for me.