Unfortunately due to not having a lot of time to do the usual clean, lube up, play around and then clean up.
I don’t have as much time for anal masturbation anymore so to avoid a lot of the prep but hopefully still get some strong orgasms I was wondering if anybody had any experience with external anal play ie playing with your asshole and the perineum and exactly how would someone go about it?
What prep would have to be done before hand, any particular position and can you achieve a prostate orgasm?
Reverse a grinding pad and you can sit and have it stimulate your sphincter while you masturbate. But if you have a good diet and play after using the toilet you will be relatively clean and it’s soap and water or throw the condom away from any toy you use
I think it would be tough to have a proper prostate orgasm without penetration, but that doesn’t mean you can’t include external play for added pleasure. I really enjoy a good vibe (my Mantric Prostate Vibe is fine, or a wand) on my perineum (taint) and balls while I’m masturbating, or around the outside of the anus. Feels great, no harm.
I totally understand the desire for less mess - more lube always makes for better anal play and so unless I’m willing to hop in the shower to really rinse everything off when I’m done I really don’t go for it. It’s not even about feeling dirty from butt stuff, it really is more about getting the sticky or oily lube off when I’m done.
I think the issue for me is not so much the lube issue it’s putting down a protective barrier between myself and the floor, as I have carpet.
I need something that I can use just in case of any spillages that’s easy to dispose of but because I don’t live alone something like puppy pads would raise a few eyebrows, I use a blanket normally but putting it in the wash often also raises a few eyebrows so I thought that thick kitchen roll would do the trick but honestly I’m not too sure. Any suggestions?
We bought a set of bath towels (not the big bath sheets, but normal meter long bath towels) in a burgundy color specifically to put down during period sex, but I have started also using them with solo play. Before that we/I would just put down whatever shirt I had with the day before. Either of those options I should hope would not raise any eyebrows with your roommates and could easily go in with a regular load of wash.
You know, I’ve been in this kinda place more than often and the best toy I got what works a treat and don’t need to prep much for is the we-vibe tango lipstick bullet vibrator! Not only do it feel great teasing on the outside, it feels good inside and as it’s small you don’t have to worry about prepping or all that stuff!
Sounds like it could be an interesting purchase, just out of curiosity can it hit the prostate at all, as much as I’m enjoying anal masturbation I’ve yet to hit the prostate orgasm unfortunately.
Actually wouldn’t that be a bit dangerous as if you insert the vibrator and try and hold it in couldn’t that pose a risk of going to A&E
