Still seems that you are trying to reason it out, with all the other possible areas she is happy for you to come on, breasts, pussy, etc, fixate on the one area she is not keen on.
It is meant to be mutual pleasure and mutually enjoyable, so I would respect her wishes.
Sorry if this comes across as sounding harsh.
Yep. It couldnāt be any simpler. Like any person, the woman you are supposed to love has hard limits. This is one of them and sheās told you. Respect it.
So you are still considering doing it even though you have made a point of noting that she doesnāt you want to? Youāve asked a question and had a a fair few responses stating the same thing, its not a good idea and doing something without someoneās consent is not ok.
You mentioned in a previous post that you think she secretly wants you to? Thats an awful assumption. But if it is really what you think, hadnāt you better ask her first?
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But to answer directly, am I thinking to do āaccidentally,ā nope. Iāll just not resist so much, let her know well in advance if Iām going to cum n she can push me back or stop with her hand.
In the scenarios you have discribed she was in control and could make her own choice.
In the scenario you are describing you are wanting to take that control away, which is why it is a bad idea.
You need to discuss it then respect her wishes.
Are you for real?!
Holding back from saying exactly what I want to say so Iāll tone it down. Your wife deserves so much better.
(Apologies if this is out of line, but comments like this are absolutely not ok and should not be tolerated.)
Would definitely avoid any accidents.
Never done it myself but can see the attraction, but better to be open about it and talk with her, than not.
A quick thing on consent:
The absence of a ānoā does not mean āyesā.
People should seek presence of an affirmative/enthusiastic āyesā, rather than simply an absense of a ānoā.
Rather than focusing on how āinfuriatingā you find women, please consider your own responsibilities and reflect on your comments/actions.
Generally, sexual assault is defined as unwanted sexual contact.
(Disclaimer: Iām not a mod 
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Please spare a thought for Rule 1.
1 No personal attacks or inflammatory behaviour
We want the Lovehoney forums to be a friendly place, where people can feel comfortable and confident. Debate and discussion is encouraged but personal attacks will not be tolerated.
By all means disagree (and as strong as you like), but donāt resort to personal attacks. 
I apologise if that came across as anything other than a friendly reminder.
Iām sure if you rephrased your post you could still make a similar point without the need to delete?
@EmmaC1989 no no, donāt be deleting your account. It should be totally natural to feel anger when reading things like that. I sure felt it when I posted my comment which breaches the same rule, and even though I typed mine in the heat of the moment and now realise I couldāve worded it differently (after taking a few deep breaths 
), Iām choosing not to edit it because I feel strongly about the topic.
Donāt be going anywhere x
I think everybody has managed to show their strength of feeling but direct that to the suggested action rather than to the person specifically (though there may be more implied ). I think saying āyou are x y zā is normally where we draw the line? Or am I going crazy?
Itās certainly not worth deleting your account over though. Itās a sensitive subject, and itās bound to attract a bit of heat.
All understood, and I do agree with you @Ian_Chimp - there is a line. As you said, it is a sensitive topicā¦ but it may be a subject that is much more personal to some than others so the initial anger can be understood.
Absolutely. It was just a heads up, nothing more.
Just to open this out a bit (as I think everyoneās in agreement that deliberately jizzing on/in someoneās face without consent is a really ignorant thing to do 
), but would this count for squirting too?
In my opinion, yes it is exactly the same.
Regardless of gender, orgasms and ejaculation arenāt always something you have a lot of control over so accidents can happen. It can also be easy not to fully communicate with a partner, particularly with a new partner, about exactly what is and isnāt ok. Someone isnāt automatically a bad person for something going wrong during sex. Intention (or recklessness) is the important thing; if you know your partner objects to something and choose to do it/let it happen then thatās wrong.
Yes, I would say, as many forum members have said it is about consent.
Sex is meant to be enjoyable for both parties, so anything which isnāt consensual should not happen. IMHO.
I would discuss it with her and maybe watch a sex scene together with them doing it. I think sometimes if you want to do something out of the ordinary to a vanilla type of person it can be a bit of shock for them. Never just do it to someone but you can express how you feel and show them that it normal. But end of the day if she still say no then that your answer.