# Fantasising about your other half **URL:** \ **Category:** Sex Tips & Talk\ **Created:** [March 10, 2020, 2:34pm UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/fantasising-about-your-other-half/249560 "2020-03-10T14:34:36Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Ginger\_Adonis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/ccd318/32.png) [@Ginger\_Adonis](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/Ginger_Adonis)\ **Post date:** [March 10, 2020, 2:34pm UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/fantasising-about-your-other-half/249560/1 "2020-03-10T14:34:36Z")
Hi all - Just curious... there are many threads here about masturbation, porn and so on - do any of you fantasise more about your other halves? We work different shifts and often in different parts of the country so don't always get the time we want at home (hence a recent spree on here to make sure we spend the time well!). But when I'm away, despite enjoying some fairly soft porn, I get a much bigger kick looking at the lingerie section of Lovehoney or other sites, and imagining the things I'd get up to with my other half as a result. I was fretting for weeks about buying her lingerie, because she's plus size and very conscious, but the first session in a lace basque was the hottest we've had for a long time, never seemed to end, and she's already been given notice there are two more presents in the post... But I do fantasised for days while the order was on its way and having gone exactly as imagined, fantasise regularly about doing it all over again. Guess this wasn't so much of a question as a nice intro, anyone go through the same fantasies? ---
**Author:** ![rockstar](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/lovehoney/user_avatar/lovehoneyforum.com/rockstar/32/363_2.png) [@rockstar](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/rockstar)\ **Post date:** [March 10, 2020, 4:05pm UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/fantasising-about-your-other-half/249560/2 "2020-03-10T16:05:00Z")
All my fantasies are about my wife. Whenever I see a new toy or a new technique my first though is always "I'd love to try that with her." ---
**Author:** ![EmmaC1989](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/e19b73/32.png) [@EmmaC1989](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/EmmaC1989)\ **Post date:** [March 10, 2020, 6:39pm UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/fantasising-about-your-other-half/249560/3 "2020-03-10T18:39:38Z")
I always fantasise about my partner when masturbating. If using my dildo, I like to imagine its him inside me. ---
**Author:** ![DLJL](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/lovehoney/user_avatar/lovehoneyforum.com/dljl/32/711_2.png) [@DLJL](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/DLJL)\ **Post date:** [March 10, 2020, 7:32pm UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/fantasising-about-your-other-half/249560/4 "2020-03-10T19:32:09Z")
Always have fantasies about the OH, probably the reason she is the receiptant of so much lingerie. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Ginger\_Adonis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/ccd318/32.png) [@Ginger\_Adonis](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/Ginger_Adonis)\ **Post date:** [March 10, 2020, 8:09pm UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/fantasising-about-your-other-half/249560/5 "2020-03-10T20:09:37Z")
> DLJL wrote: > > Always have fantasies about the OH, probably the reason she is the receiptant of so much lingerie. 😉 Sounds familiar! Mine is in for a delivery this weekend ![](upload://5BDs2y1gm13l2R58ovmAMxyNM3f.gif) ---
**Author:** ![Knottydevil](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/lovehoney/user_avatar/lovehoneyforum.com/knottydevil/32/376_2.png) [@Knottydevil](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/Knottydevil)\ **Post date:** [March 10, 2020, 10:54pm UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/fantasising-about-your-other-half/249560/6 "2020-03-10T22:54:06Z")
I hear you, Ginger. Sex with my OH is the best! Memories of our best times, remembering the touches, the sounds, the scents, the tastes and the emotions, can make me really hot under the collar. I love to fantasise about her with me, with toys, with lingerie. It's all good ;D ---
**Author:** ![illtakethehighroad](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/b487fb/32.png) [@illtakethehighroad](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/illtakethehighroad)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2020, 9:21pm UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/fantasising-about-your-other-half/249560/7 "2020-03-15T21:21:19Z")
i fantasise about my OH all the time. Imagining trying new things and her dressed up. Remembering hot sessions in the past as well. ---
**Author:** ![Mr\_Doob](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e0b2c6/32.png) [@Mr\_Doob](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/Mr_Doob)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2020, 10:17pm UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/fantasising-about-your-other-half/249560/9 "2020-03-16T22:17:11Z")
More than I thought I ever would, often when I’m looking through lingerie or toys to surprise her with and imagining the outcome or her using such items. ---
**Author:** ![Love\_Stud\_Too](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7cd45c/32.png) [@Love\_Stud\_Too](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/Love_Stud_Too)\ **Post date:** [March 18, 2020, 10:12am UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/fantasising-about-your-other-half/249560/10 "2020-03-18T10:12:56Z")
This also works for girls as well. I have often fantasied about products I see on the LH site and how I would use them on or with my husband. It’s very sexy to do this and I’ve once discussed this over the phone with my husband which resulted in us indulging in some simultaneous solo play at distance. 😊 ---
**Author:** ![Gosig](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/lovehoney/user_avatar/lovehoneyforum.com/gosig/32/572_2.png) [@Gosig](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/Gosig)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2020, 9:54am UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/fantasising-about-your-other-half/249560/11 "2020-03-19T09:54:15Z")
Nope, never. If I want to think about my husband, I have sex with him. Play is time for me to make use of my extremely vivid imagination. ---
**Author:** ![wildflower](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/lovehoney/user_avatar/lovehoneyforum.com/wildflower/32/47062_2.png) [@wildflower](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/wildflower)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2020, 11:10am UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/fantasising-about-your-other-half/249560/12 "2020-03-19T11:10:22Z")
> Gosig wrote: > > > > Nope, never. If I want to think about my husband, I have sex with him. > > > > > > Play is time for me to make use of my extremely vivid imagination. I was starting to think I was the only one who feels like this! ---
**Author:** ![MrsG1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e56c9b/32.png) [@MrsG1](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/MrsG1)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2020, 11:24am UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/fantasising-about-your-other-half/249560/13 "2020-03-19T11:24:44Z")
My OH likes me to pleasure myself and tell him about it and I honestly can say I think about him whilst I do it because I know how much he gets off in it. Last night I actually had a very sensual highly sexual dream about him. Had been feeling horny all day then had a disagreement and went to bed. Woke up even more horny. ---
**Author:** ![Mrs.John](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/d2c977/32.png) [@Mrs.John](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/Mrs.John)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2020, 1:10pm UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/fantasising-about-your-other-half/249560/14 "2020-03-19T13:10:20Z")
> wildflower wrote: > > > > > Gosig wrote: > > > > > > > > Nope, never. If I want to think about my husband, I have sex with him. > > > > > > > > > > > > Play is time for me to make use of my extremely vivid imagination. > > > > I was starting to think I was the only one who feels like this! Same!! Have discussed this previously. I'm not even in my fantasies, my Husband doesn't get close. It's a bit like watching porn but in my own head! ---
**Author:** ![teacake](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/lovehoney/user_avatar/lovehoneyforum.com/teacake/32/23502_2.png) [@teacake](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/teacake)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2020, 2:24pm UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/fantasising-about-your-other-half/249560/15 "2020-03-19T14:24:32Z")
I had times when I would think about my partner and times when she didn't even enter my mind those times were my thoughts and my thoughts only. ---
**Author:** ![4Uonly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/4/f1d935/32.png) [@4Uonly](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/4Uonly)\ **Post date:** [March 21, 2020, 8:37am UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/fantasising-about-your-other-half/249560/16 "2020-03-21T08:37:20Z")
> wildflower wrote: > > > > > Gosig wrote: > > > > > > > > Nope, never. If I want to think about my husband, I have sex with him. > > > > > > > > > > > > Play is time for me to make use of my extremely vivid imagination. > > > > I was starting to think I was the only one who feels like this! Me too. Uch! ---
**Author:** ![Oldman](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/lovehoney/user_avatar/lovehoneyforum.com/oldman/32/552_2.png) [@Oldman](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/Oldman)\ **Post date:** [March 21, 2020, 10:46am UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/fantasising-about-your-other-half/249560/17 "2020-03-21T10:46:17Z")
Since mt wife has no sex drive , if I want sex with her I must use memories of fun we had . Then expand them for my solo masturbation . ---
**Author:** ![300](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/3/5e9695/32.png) [@300](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/300)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2020, 5:38pm UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/fantasising-about-your-other-half/249560/18 "2020-03-26T17:38:58Z")
I wrote a story about one of my fantasies the other day and then acted it out with Mrs300 last weekend! Lovely. ---
**Author:** ![anon99761871](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/8edcca/32.png) [@anon99761871](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/anon99761871)\ **Post date:** [April 10, 2020, 9:41am UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/fantasising-about-your-other-half/249560/19 "2020-04-10T09:41:57Z")
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**Author:** ![LoliSuuna](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/f6c823/32.png) [@LoliSuuna](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/LoliSuuna)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2020, 11:58pm UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/fantasising-about-your-other-half/249560/21 "2020-04-11T23:58:37Z")
I usually would need porn to get off, but I’ve recently got a master and so imaginations of things we do together or scenarios that I play out turn me on. ---
**Author:** ![KinkyMira](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/lovehoney/user_avatar/lovehoneyforum.com/kinkymira/32/313_2.png) [@KinkyMira](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/KinkyMira)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2020, 6:19am UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/fantasising-about-your-other-half/249560/22 "2020-04-12T06:19:23Z")
> Scoob wrote: > > > > If I do, it usually involves a threesome scenario with one of her friends If I fantasise about my husband, it is often a threesome with one of my friends. Apparently, I have some fit friends. lol I often fantasise about other people though. After all, it is a fantasy. [Next page](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/fantasising-about-your-other-half/249560.md?page=2)