My wife’s favorite thing for ME to wear is my black suit and tie. That does make me feel pretty sexy, too, especially when I’m still fully dressed, other than my pants unzipped while she’s naked and sucking my cock. Although also love it when we’re both still dressed to the nines from an event and I can cum on one of her nice cocktail or party dresses.
After that, my preference to wear is my leather color with a wet-look studded body harness or wet-look backless briefs.
My favorite thing for wifey to wear is just about any of her Fierce wet-look from LH, though which piece depends on the mood. There’s the open-cup, crotchless body for when I’m in charge, or the zip-around (zips from neck down under and around to the tailbone) catsuit if she’s in the mood to take charge and peg me. Most recently we added the red lace-up wet-look halter and mini-skirt that was just amazing to watch her in. So one of those.
Alternately, also love a satin nighty. Or a billowy lace babydoll. Or the fishnet body stocking. Hmm. Tough choices.
For me it’s vintage lingerie, fully fashioned nylons, metal clasp suspender belts and expensive, classy lingerie.
One of my biggest thrills is buying for a lady; such a turn on. Being out with her knowing she is wearing, discreetly feeling a suspender line is such a buzz for me!
For me the biggest element is choosing with a partner; obviously everyone is different so I like to buy lingerie that feels, right and comfortable to her; something practical and special she can wear perhaps beyond the bedroom too.
I’d much rather buy expensive undies rather than cheap bedroom lingerie. Metal clasp suspenders that hold and have a more expensive feel. But as above I always love to get a partners input on any lingerie and her her to choose.
For me it’s either stockings and suspenders or suspender tights, matching knickers and a matching bra (if I’m being pegged) or a matching cropped T shirt.
I’ve just bought a couple of body stockings though and I’m quite keen on them too.
We both feel that lingerie plays an
important role in our sex life because it often increases our mutual sexual pleasure and arousal.
My wife’s choice of lingerie (both in, and out, of the bedroom) definitely helps to enhance her confidence, self-esteem, and her feeling of femininity. We find that feeling more positive about ourselves makes for a more enjoyable and pleasurable sexual experience.
Wearing sexy lingerie styles, whether it be lingerie in soft fabrics and delicate designs evoking feelings of femininity and sensuality, or more raunchier fetish-styled underwear, we find it so arousing through its subtle (and not so subtle) sexual signalling.
She enjoys “dressing up” in sexy lingerie as a special treat for me, especially if this includes the following combinations (preferably in black (but pink, or red are also lovely).
See Thru sheer gusset, full cut nylon brief panties (or sheer, lace trimmed, open crotch panties);
See thru (6, 8 or 10 strap) PowerMesh suspender belt with 19mm wide suspender straps, chrome metal clasps and adjusters;
Sheer see thru nylon chiffon bra; and complimented with
Fully Fashioned stockings with a keyhole welt, reinforced foot, back-seam & Cuban heel.
When Mrs H decides to surprise me by her wearing the above ensemble, I find that I become immediately aroused and our anticipation heightened.
Whilst I love seeing her wearing any beautiful underwear. I always compliment her on how lovely she looks and I enjoy her reaction in how it makes her feel desired and appreciated.
So, so agree with all you say. It’s an achievement and deeply sexy when you see a lady feeling pretty and her confidence building when she wears nice lingerie. Not just whilst love making but practically too. Love buying it and paying nice compliments. Makes her feel appreciated and special and gives me a nice buzz aswell.
I’ve mentioned this before but a few years ago my wife had ‘nice’ knickers and bras and 'everyday ’ underwear which was a loose assembly of random pants and bras.
I wanted her to look and feel good all the time so one day i hid all her underwear and took her shopping for a whole new wardrobe of nice lingerie in matching sets and that’s how she dresses every day now.
Always important to me to choose with the lady, let her choose styles that are practical and nice she feels comfortable to be in and potentially used beyond when you go to bed.
I have a love of vintage lingerie. Costs a lot more but it’s more practical and better fitting that stuff I deem as cheap bedroom wear. A lot of the models I have done lingerie photography tend to agree along with partners. Amount of times a model or a partner has worn for me and there has been cursing when the suspenders have unfastened! A lot of my model and lady companions prefer metal clasps.
I need the lady to feel confident and feel good wearing nice underwear, make her feel special and pretty. That in turn makes me feel good.
A while ago a lady friend lacked a bit of confidence but she steadily come round to the fact, she was pretty and alluring and gradually found the confidence to buy nice lingerie herself.
The biggest buzz was when we had a weekend together; she wore her new lingerie having dinner. Knowing she felt confident, content and knowing I’d beautifully unwrap her was an amazing feeling!
She even went as far as wearing a pair of ff gio seamed stockings. Later she admitted it took her so much courage to do that; she did wear a long skirt so not too much seam was showing but it was an amazing feeling. It was a complete surprise to me as she was shy and often lacked confidence but at that moment I knew I’d convinced her so could wear and look good as any woman in expensive lingerie:)
The restaurant was almost empty which helped. I love gio stockings, but as they are a rarity in public, the last thing I wanted was any unnecessary attention as I knew she was nervous and shy!
But I need not of worried. Later I told her how Beautiful and sexy she looked and I beautifully unwrapped her down to heels and sheer nylons. The making love was so nice!